Investigation and People Search Services

[Powerlifter]

Has anyone ever been investigated by a possible date with a lady and may have not known about it?

I see these people search websites where if you have a bit of information like a name place or state one lives you can pretty much narrow it down to the person you are researching. With a fee you can learn about their home value if they have one learn their job history, criminal history etc., before you even go on a date with the person.

This can also catch you if you are a liar or a player for example if you tell a lady you own your own home and she does a search and finds it's in someone elses name you've been found out and won't be able to recover for how many women hang with liars?


Now I really don't know if you really get all this information with that fee because I have never did it but enough information can be given to access a possible date.

I personally don't mind giving out my personal information to a possible date if I am serious about her but if I knew a lady I was setting up to hang out with did this it would make me very uncomfortable and I'd go as far as it being a deal breaker but the question is how would I ever find out because these sites seem to freely give this information out without your consent and it's perfectly legal.

Another thing my phone number can be traced to my home then you can google a map of my home and then do a home value on it or get close to a value and also can learn where I have lived in the last 30 years plus who I am related to it's all there without a fee but some info may not be totally true but it gives you a good idea.

I did my own and did my brothers uncle and was surprised to find out all about the real estate they owned the taxes they paid.

This is really scary the new age of information is bit of a stretch and this information should be given only between two people face to face to learn more about each other to keep mystery alive but to dig into a persons pass or personal history without their consent before you really have a chance to know them is really discerning.

One bright side to this is it makes you tell the truth a good thing but I'd prefer to do it on my time and not from a lady doing an investigation search on me.

Whats your take and how would you feel?

 

[Colossus]

Kinda creepy man.

If I found out a girl did that it would be an absolute, instant deal-breaker.

I mean I've Googled chicks before, but actually going to that extreme of looking into public and tax records for a date is straight-up stalking.

 

[Powerlifter]

Said that right. Just after I posted this there on the TV comes on a commerical advertising this exact thing some of what was said was find out before the date blah blah blah sure I can see someone wanted to make sure a guy isn't a rapist or some other servere rap sheet but that could be found by word of mouth I am sure but for any woman digging into more personal stuff or work history is creepy and agree stalking but it will be considered lawful stalking and will favor the women doing it I am afraid.

I was surprised I could find this much information on only myself just by my phone number then doing a google map on the address and seeing my homes estimated home value though information was missing it was off my about 60 grand but it was a ballpark figure scary...plus the public record of my taxes on the home.

Kinda creepy man.

If I found out a girl did that it would be an absolute, instant deal-breaker.

I mean I've Googled chicks before, but actually going to that extreme of looking into public and tax records for a date is straight-up stalking.