"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Investigating... FR, kind of...

NobodyCares1

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Night like many others, I decided to go to a disco with friends. As usual I got really drunk. I woke up at home in the morning trying to figure out what happened last night.

All I could remember were just short periods of time. Most of them are unimportant to this story. I thought that I was with my friends almost all the time. But there was this blank phase where I knew I wasn't with my friends, but can't really remember where I was or what I was doing. Well I thought that it's unimportant.

After the weekend ended I had to go back to school, but that's where I noticed one girl looking at me, but it wasn't the usual look I get from girls that think I'm good looking. She wasn't really smiling, she had one of her eyebrow raised, it looked more as a look of confusion. My thoughts went back to the disco, have I been with her? No, that didn't look as a look of attraction. So I was probably drunk and did some stupid stuff, I tend to do that when I'm too drunk. But what? None of my friends know what was I doing when I wasn't with them.

After all this thoughts I decided to let it go, there's no way I could remind myself of what I did. I still got some looks from this girl but after a couple of days they weren't as noticable as they used to, or maybe I just wasn't noticing them.

Two months have passed and suddenly I get a suggestion from a guy I know to add her as a friend on Facebook. Of course I thought I did some stupid things so she probably thinks I'm a douche and the guy just wants to make me look stupid. So I asked him why did she suggest her as a friend, he's first answer was "Don't mind that :(". After a bit of asking he told me stuff like "She thinks you're really attractive" etc. But I knew she was in a relationship, when I confronted him about it he said "Yes, but she told me that she would leave him for you".

Of course I thought he was talking bullsh!t. Thought next day at school I noticed her glancing at me so the curiosity got me. I sent her the request and asked him again about what happened that night at the disco. He said to me that I was with her and that she broke up with her BF there because of me. And that they are still arguing because of it and that he doesn't know more.

Well still it didn't seem believable to me because I saw her with him going hand in hand a couple of times. But still I was curious.

The next day after I sent her the request I noticed when she was with her BF she was looking at me again as she used to after the disco. Though I didn't notice her face expression. Her boyfriend didn't notice she was looking at me. Today is two days since I've sent her the request but she hasn't accepted it.

Now this thread isn't about the girl but more about me figuring out if the guy is lying to me about the whole story, because he isn't really someone I would trust about this. Though there isn't much I can figure out without talking to the girl.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alcohol was involved, she thought you were attractive that night and flirted with you. The beta boyfriend got jealous and over-reacted. Plant a seed next time you see her.

I'm going to grab something to eat, wanna come?
 

NobodyCares1

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Well she still have to think I'm attractive since she told that guy, who then told me about it. I might plant a seed, she's good looking though I don't really want to get involved in someone's relationship.

I know 100% now that she was on FB and didn't accept the friend request, there may be many reasons for that but screw it, I'm really tired with all the woman bullsh!t lately so I think I'll probably let this go. I'm really just interested in finding out what is the truth but that might be impossible...
 
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