This is an especially useful tip for guys in college. many times you will have girls in your room by for one reason or another. Remember this post!!
If men knew all that women think, they would be twenty times more daring.”
~ Alphonse Karr
I am amazed at the results i get when i remember this quote. I have seen and experienced UNBELIEVABLE success with women when I just go for it and ask them to get physical. I have literally seen a friend of mine (average looks) go up to a female ask if she wanted to hook up with him, she said yes and they got away from the party and hooked up. Ive seen guys at parties grope girls and the girls not really care either way. What i am saying is that you can get away with alot more than you think if you just act. When isolated with a women, boldness women is key!
The concept that one has to constantly remember is that women don't flip out on a guy for trying to get physical with her. The worst rejection you will generally face is her politely saying "um no".This is no different than the rejection you get after asking a chick for her number. After asking the girl at the party to make out the rejections i've gotten were some variations :
1.) "um nooo...chuckle" and walking away
2.) "are u serious..."
3.) "your confident arent you...i have a bf"
NONE of these girls yelled at the top of their lungs, smacked me and called me a perv. They did not really care. The worst response i got was a look of shock and a laugh. Some are actually quite flattered.
More often than not you do get some girls saying yes to the question "ur cute, hey, do you wanna make out?".....u have to be 100% confident in that question because even if they are willing they will often ask "what??" in sheer shock of your boldness. Common responses for willing girls is:
1.) "what?......um ok, not here though"
2.) "hahah Ok"
3.) "ur a player?"
Keys to pulling this off:
1.) at the party make sure the girl is not within earshot of her friends or else her anti slut shield will be put on.
2.) be confident and act like its the most natural thing in the world..even after they ask you to repeat
3.) you can't be a total loser/nerd of the party an expect to pull this off, just be an average, decent looking guy.
4.) wait till the party is well underway when everyone is relaxed and their inhibitions are lowered.
5.) DO NOT make too much small talk with her besides maybe asking her name, and some other bs...if you make too much small talk the transition from being a nice guy who wants to learn about her to a super confident sexy guy who knows that secretly she is horny will not work.
6.) proceed to find an isolated spot in the party, maybe its a room. Or discretely go to your place. Better yet be in an isolated spot already.
7.) works best with girls that don't have boyfriends
8.) works much better at parties not clubs...clubs generally not conducive to hooking up.
9.) if she rejects you after subtle persuasion just smile and walk away
The key point to remember is that when you are alone with a girl in a room or even at a party ----->>> be bold and make a move or at least get close to her in a sexual way and ask her if she wants to make out. More often than not if she is single, no one else around, and NO one would find out, a girl will hook up with you. Even if she is not showing any signs of her being interested. What she is thinking "hey, i might as well, he's decent looking and im kinda horny and im sure no one is gonna find out".. Im not sayin she will have sex with you but making out is a good place to start. Making out is such a casual thing with alot of college aged females that ur changes are good.
If men knew all that women think, they would be twenty times more daring.”
~ Alphonse Karr
I am amazed at the results i get when i remember this quote. I have seen and experienced UNBELIEVABLE success with women when I just go for it and ask them to get physical. I have literally seen a friend of mine (average looks) go up to a female ask if she wanted to hook up with him, she said yes and they got away from the party and hooked up. Ive seen guys at parties grope girls and the girls not really care either way. What i am saying is that you can get away with alot more than you think if you just act. When isolated with a women, boldness women is key!
The concept that one has to constantly remember is that women don't flip out on a guy for trying to get physical with her. The worst rejection you will generally face is her politely saying "um no".This is no different than the rejection you get after asking a chick for her number. After asking the girl at the party to make out the rejections i've gotten were some variations :
1.) "um nooo...chuckle" and walking away
2.) "are u serious..."
3.) "your confident arent you...i have a bf"
NONE of these girls yelled at the top of their lungs, smacked me and called me a perv. They did not really care. The worst response i got was a look of shock and a laugh. Some are actually quite flattered.
More often than not you do get some girls saying yes to the question "ur cute, hey, do you wanna make out?".....u have to be 100% confident in that question because even if they are willing they will often ask "what??" in sheer shock of your boldness. Common responses for willing girls is:
1.) "what?......um ok, not here though"
2.) "hahah Ok"
3.) "ur a player?"
Keys to pulling this off:
1.) at the party make sure the girl is not within earshot of her friends or else her anti slut shield will be put on.
2.) be confident and act like its the most natural thing in the world..even after they ask you to repeat
3.) you can't be a total loser/nerd of the party an expect to pull this off, just be an average, decent looking guy.
4.) wait till the party is well underway when everyone is relaxed and their inhibitions are lowered.
5.) DO NOT make too much small talk with her besides maybe asking her name, and some other bs...if you make too much small talk the transition from being a nice guy who wants to learn about her to a super confident sexy guy who knows that secretly she is horny will not work.
6.) proceed to find an isolated spot in the party, maybe its a room. Or discretely go to your place. Better yet be in an isolated spot already.
7.) works best with girls that don't have boyfriends
8.) works much better at parties not clubs...clubs generally not conducive to hooking up.
9.) if she rejects you after subtle persuasion just smile and walk away
The key point to remember is that when you are alone with a girl in a room or even at a party ----->>> be bold and make a move or at least get close to her in a sexual way and ask her if she wants to make out. More often than not if she is single, no one else around, and NO one would find out, a girl will hook up with you. Even if she is not showing any signs of her being interested. What she is thinking "hey, i might as well, he's decent looking and im kinda horny and im sure no one is gonna find out".. Im not sayin she will have sex with you but making out is a good place to start. Making out is such a casual thing with alot of college aged females that ur changes are good.