Invalidation = indifference

[mrgoodstuff]

In most of these cases, the girl doesn't find you attractive at all. She's merely attempting to collect ego points. The only thing you can say about a female trying to non-verbally engage with you is that you are not disqualified (e.g. too hideous or smelly) from ego points.

She's just trying to get you to show interest SO she can blow you off. It's things they do when they are otherwise bored (like doing laundry). It really doesn't mean much.

When you can actively interact with her and generate interest (that's verified, not imagined) then ignoring her is useful.

For initial interest you don't have to "generate" or "work" for it. She can be physically attracted to you and do a double take or a long gaze. I think any DJ should be physically attractive enough to generate physical attraction due to low body fat and/or body fat.

 

[wifehunter]

So you must have had a sneaky peak then....so much for indifference.

Paraipherally yes, never any direct eye contact.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

but knowing how to approach them is different. Women these days have an attention span of goldfish.

I used to hang out with this Australian guy over a decade ago. He had the most "playful" attitude I'd ever seen. He'd cold approach, start asking all these playful, flirty questions, totally friendly comfortable vibe, but as soon as they start to show interest (long answers, lots of female initiated kino, etc, really positive body language) he would flat out leave them cold. Just shut down completely, not face them, not even acknowledge them.

Like one minute he was just a guy who loved life and love living in his own skin, and the next he was a stone cold sociopath.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

It's even better when they stare at you with those gaga eyes and think you don't notice. Then you look back at them and do the subtle up-down eyebrow movement. She's gonna have to change her panties after that one.

 

[Mike32ct]

I'm at the laundromat, and this chick is walking by me, way too many times. I haven't looked up from my phone once.

Silly girls!

She's afraid that you're going to steal her panties out of her laundry basket lol.

All kidding aside, I would at least make eye contact and nod. It's easy to overdo the ignoring thing.

 

[wifehunter]

She's afraid that you're going to steal her panties out of her laundry basket lol.

All kidding aside, I would at least make eye contact and nod. It's easy to overdo the ignoring thing.

Nah, I wasn't ignoring, I was busy reading. My music stuff is crazy right now, more interesting than chicks.

See: Mr. Impossible

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Nah, I wasn't ignoring, I was busy reading. My music stuff is crazy right now, more interesting than chicks.

See: Mr. Impossible

I think we've all played this game before. But where does it actually get you?

A few seconds of attention? Big deal. You still didn't **** anyone for free.

 

[nismo-4]

And not one of you motherf**kers here mentioned anything about getting these girls.

Ignoring a girl only gets you so far, if anywhere at all. Ignoring when you're unattractive in her eyes is useless, because you're invisible to her anyway. Otherwise, you're cannon fodder at most, useless at least.

Doing alpha male traits is all fine and dandy. That doesn't mean you're alpha. It means you refuse to play the beta role she designated for you. Cut your losses.

I have yet to hear a story on here where a average joe ignores a hot nurse/waitress/stripper/etc. by never looking up from his smartphone and he bangs them a week later.

You ignored me, I'm gonna bang your brains out...Said the HB9 in a deluded man's mind.

Let's remember: men win when there's sex. Women win when they get ego boosts, more fans, friends, and orbiters.

I don't know of any guy who has a desire to be just friends or an orbiter for a woman. I have, however heard of women crying when they lose an orbiter or male friend. Of course, they'll be ok when they call Chad & Tyrone for a gangbang.

 

[TheProspect]

Uhh, so what did you accomplish OP?

You say you acted indifferent (for whatever reason) yet you're creating a thread about the woman. Your mind was apparently focused on the woman enough to be conscious of her passing through your vicinity more than once yet you think staring at your phone is more constructive than a few moments of eye contact or conversation, and because why? You don't want to validate her? Or are you just justifying not taking action?

Lol what's the point of this thread? Should be titled "my inaction = indifference in woman".... You know the point of this forum right?

 

[wifehunter]