"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't think it's necessary to count caleries to lose weight, but this article only tells half the story. He didn't lose weight because he could eat whatever he wanted. He lost weight because he started exercising and ate less. Instead of focusing on that, it focuses on a lot of bullsh1t like how other diets are "too hard." It fools the reader into thinking a fallacy that you can live on unhealthy food and still live a healthy life - just because he weighs less does NOT mean he's in better shape. The article shows no actual data, and it's all based on the anecdote of two men.

I do not recommend this diet.
 

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that is simply rediculis and stupid..
crap is crap and if you eat it, it's unhealthy no matter what.

nachos is nachos and a 32os. big gulp and thats just that.
if i wanted to eat it, i make no excuses and i don't feel
guilty about it and i sure as hell don't lie to myself that
it's okay if i do 120 minutes of cardio to work it off.

dude, it's just food. you know whats bad for you,
if you wanna eat $hit then get ready to deal with the
conseqeunces of it.

i instinctiually eat. but it's meats and what kinds of
fruits and veges i should eat and when.
NOT junk food but that's only because i choose to
and not because of some diet to follow.

anyone that knows the fundimentals of basic nutrition
can figure out a how to eat healthy just for them
and their body type.
 
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