“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Introverts, Extroverts, and Marriages

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davewe said:
I'm an introvert and have been married twice and both were extroverts. I think it's the dynamic between the 2 people that matters most. If the extroverted partner does not accept the nature of the introverted partner (or vice versa) trouble is bound to happen.
Boom, davewe nailed it.

I'm an introvert and my wife in in the middle somewhere. I knew long ago I could never marry an extrovert because they couldn't 'get' it.

I have better social skills than most too. I just draw my energy from being alone, and it drains me to be around people too much.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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mrRuckus said:
For some in here....Introvert doesn't mean shy. I can be quite loud and be the center of attention, enjoy it for a short while, and then just want to go home and watch tv alone. It doesn't take much to get my social fill.
Another good post. Most people have no clue at all what being introverted actually means.
 

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I always lumped introversion with being unpopular.
If a guy walks into a situation and gets all kinds of attention, makes new friends quickly gets invited out alot etc...he becomes more outgoing.

Versus the guy no one wants to chat up or even be seen around who will eventually go home alone and never get a phone call unless somebody needs a favor. hence the introvert
 
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