"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Introduction, need opinions?

Anthony_Training

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I thought of this in the shower this afternoon... please gimme any feedback.. it established humor, alpha ness and kino... seems solid imo, but thats because I thought of it..



Hi!

(3 seconds for response to know she recognizes)

What brings you here?

(blah), you? or (blah) or (no response)

I am actually looking for pretty girls right now.

3 second pause

Do you know where I can find some?

(says herself, or nothing, or literally names a place)

No, I mean REALLY REALLY pretty...

My name is Anthony!

< Put hand Out> (when she responds with name?)

A pleasure to meet you <name>
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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YoungPoet2006

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I wouldn't recommend this type of approach because:

1. many of the lines you think about in the shower or any where else while you're alone don't usually work.

2. You come off as sort of shallow because you stress the fact that you are looking for pretty girls.

3. Try to compliment her on a piece of clothing or something that she is wearing. Then make "small talk" with her.

I suggest you read the conversation guides in the dj bible. They will help. Holla!
 

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Thanks for advice

I understand it might seem a little shallow, but in a joking manner doesn't it seem ok?

I was looking to come up with alternate ways to approach/joke.

I was under the impression that complimenting on clothes/looks doesn't help as its what every guy does, AND that giving undeserved compliments prior to them 'earning it' as some may say is not good form.

Please continue to help me !
 

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You're thinking too much, pal. A good introduction doesn't assume the girl's going to say anything. Just start with "hey there, my name's [name] - what's yours?" and go from there. It helps if you notice something about the girl or your surroundings to comment on and get things rolling, but improv is the key to any good conversation, really.
 
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