"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Introduction, need opinions?

Anthony_Training

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I thought of this in the shower this afternoon... please gimme any feedback.. it established humor, alpha ness and kino... seems solid imo, but thats because I thought of it..



Hi!

(3 seconds for response to know she recognizes)

What brings you here?

(blah), you? or (blah) or (no response)

I am actually looking for pretty girls right now.

3 second pause

Do you know where I can find some?

(says herself, or nothing, or literally names a place)

No, I mean REALLY REALLY pretty...

My name is Anthony!

< Put hand Out> (when she responds with name?)

A pleasure to meet you <name>
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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YoungPoet2006

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I wouldn't recommend this type of approach because:

1. many of the lines you think about in the shower or any where else while you're alone don't usually work.

2. You come off as sort of shallow because you stress the fact that you are looking for pretty girls.

3. Try to compliment her on a piece of clothing or something that she is wearing. Then make "small talk" with her.

I suggest you read the conversation guides in the dj bible. They will help. Holla!
 

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Thanks for advice

I understand it might seem a little shallow, but in a joking manner doesn't it seem ok?

I was looking to come up with alternate ways to approach/joke.

I was under the impression that complimenting on clothes/looks doesn't help as its what every guy does, AND that giving undeserved compliments prior to them 'earning it' as some may say is not good form.

Please continue to help me !
 

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You're thinking too much, pal. A good introduction doesn't assume the girl's going to say anything. Just start with "hey there, my name's [name] - what's yours?" and go from there. It helps if you notice something about the girl or your surroundings to comment on and get things rolling, but improv is the key to any good conversation, really.
 
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