"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Introduction / Need help making friends

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Hey guys, what's up

I'm kinda new to this forum, been lurking around for a while trying to absorb some information but it's about time i make a move.

So, I'm 17, in the last year of school here in Brazil, can't wait to go to university next year.

The problem is I need help making friends because although i have never been a completely isolated person, only recently i discovered that i made almost all of my friends just because of luck, some people i could be naturally talking to, without thinking too much and ****.
Never made a lot of girlfriends either.

I need help because i never know what to talk about. I usually worry if the other person is bored and i never know when i can consider myself to be friends with someone i recently met, so i can just walk up to them in school and start a casual conversation :/

I hope you guys feel what I'm saying, I can't take this **** anymore, but I really need help changing it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Conquer

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suck ppls ****. LOL jk, Join clubs? try that
 
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Find people with the same interests as you
 
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