"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Introduction and field reports

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Introduction:

Whats up guys,

I've been on-and-off lurking the forum and the entire website for atleast 3 months now. I am 21 years of age, I'm planning on making my own business and getting a fund with a mortgage company called GemiStar at the start of the year. I've been in 2 serious LTR's and have had over 23 lays. I wouldn't say that I'm trying to get out of or ever have been a AFC ( average frustrated chump ) or any other attributed characters, but my primary mission is to become a pro with ALL women, this includes every culture, race, country, nation, colour and creed. I have downloaded the following: DJ Bible and other Mods written threads. I haven't sat down and read it through n through but I inted to do this with progression, step by step.

About me:

I have been told by my senior-male family and friends that I'm a confident chap, some of the things I do, they wouldnt think about doing and they're definetly not AFC's. I don't suffer with AA, but I do have the occasional problem with extending conversations or convo flowing. In other words, my main problem is with Daygame Transitions - ( gaining girls indicators of interest, when and how to neg, good negs, when to kino and when to leave a set ).

I'm about 5'10 Tall and weigh just under 170lbs. Chiseled features with thick Johnny-Depp type Black-facial hair ( some bumfluff and moustache ) with vampire type canines lol ( which girls have always said are cute ), I have numerous tattoos, I love working out, clubbing, eating good food and wearing expensive flamboyant designer apparel. In regards to my sex, women and game lifestyle, My best credentials have been in events, online, nightclubs or bars, but very rarely in Daygame. I have dated over 5 girls with Daygame, I suck pretty bad with this. This is one of the main things which I'd like to invest some time in getting to conquer.

Field reports:

As others have done before me, I've read few many of the events that take place with some new users here, I wont be posting any ''How do I'' or "Should I''-type threads, since this will make me a Noob ( Dont wanna p!ss off the Golden Age guys that are still actually here :) ) So what I will do instead is post my periodical events in Field reports and you guys can hit me up on what I'm doing right or wrong on your own ignition. Watch this space for 2010, as I'll be drilling a few reports into the new year.

Nice to be aboard, theres some awesome guys here, I wont name names to get any favouritism running :rolleyes: , Merry xmas to everyone out there and the best of luck in 2010.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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13.01.10

I have been talking with a girl named Charlotte for about 2 weeks now. Our relationship is based off of comedy and we mock eachother at any given chance. Its neither a push or pull relationship, or Friendzoned. She actually bugs me alot, because I don't answer 85% of her Phonecalls, sometimes I have other things to do, but she is the type to lose contact if she feels she is 2nd best. Apart from this week and the last, we've agreed to hang out at my place and watch a few movies on this following, Saturday 16.01.10. Its also my Friends B-day on this day, but he reckons he will go out the week after when he gets paid, so I planned this day with Charlotte. She has a tendency to flake with others, but I'll stick to my 2 cents on her.

Update on 01.01.10 onwards

Went out for NY Day. I number closed two HBs, but I was not satisfied with my performance. It was a more of a rush to get ANY number for the night. All in all, I haven't called or texted any of them simply for this reason. They've probably forgotten who I am, but I'll text the most likely of them and see what happens, if sh!t flakes, then I won't be too disappointed as I wasnt focused on closing the entire deal anyway.

Approaches - 2
Numbers - 2


Will keep you guys posted . . .
 

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15.01.10

13.00am Went to gym with my mate, got a new membership card for three other gyms, worked out. Made an appointment for the GUM clinic, just to get a checkup and make sure everything is alright. Appointment is scheduled for Monday 17.01.10

23.00pm I went to a bar for my friends 21st Birthday party, wasn't really any hot girls there, so I just took advantage of what was given to me, not much approaching, just got a few Facebook closes, wasn't interested in pursuing any just had a laugh and got smashed. Met a few high school friends there.

Update on Charlotte:

I knew she would do this. Its exactly as I said, I went out for my mates birthday yesterday, Charlotte and me was meant to be hanging out today Saturday 16.01.10 as my friend wasnt going out tonight. So, because I didnt piick up her calls since yesterday and the day before, she thought I was ignoring her and she made other plans. When she told me this, I kinda flipped out in my tone and she took note of it, when I realised she was taking note, I had to withdraw and I made something up and said "I just got p!ssed and kicked out of a club, dont take notice of me (wally - knickname I gave her) " I couldnt make a back-up plan, so it looks like I'll be with the xbox and a few beers tonight.

New Girl:

Single Mother, 23 yrs old, I'm not keen on this, but she just wants to fvck, problem is, she lives like 190 miles away from me, I picked her up off of Facebook along time ago, just reinitiated chatting again. I dont drive, I have no car available, her 3month old son is at her mum's house and she's telling me to come over, I said I needed to make some phonecalls and would let her know later on tonight. Obviously i'm not travelling that distant without no vehicle and for abit of poon. :(

Approaches: 3
Numbers: 0
Facebook closes: 3

I'll keep you guys posted, over & out.
 

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19.01.10

Bad Trip

Went to a Club out of town with the boys, the atmoshphere was really tight-knit, I spoke and built rapport with two girls, but failed to number close. Had loads of chances to pick up on chances, but wussed out due to having a bad trip, was PARANOID AS FVCKKKK!! a goal for this year is to quit smoking and popping socially.

22.01.10

Lauren's BPD and Lecture

College, spoke to a girl I've been gaming for over a month. We arent in the same block, but happend to hold some good rapport going. She says I can come back to hers anytime. She told me some disturbing stories about what happend to her (sexually assaulted, near Raped, beaten up), I smell abit of BPD, so I'm keeping my feet out of that water till a raindy day.

23.01.10

Had to next Taylor (a girl I've been gaming) for a while after she took a liberty of mokcing me on the phone because she was Drunk. Again, I can SNL her but she lives too far away from me. Probably ONS her Bestfriend too. (will get into more detail)

26.01.10

Took my Theory Test

28.01.10

Aimee

Hanged out with a girl I ONS with about 2 weeks ago. wasn't told to come but I just dropped by because I was in the area. Her dad was in, so I figured we werent going to get up to much. She seemed abit too standoff-ish aswell. Maybe because she was on her P/Q. I left before she could ask me, she called me as soon as I stepped out the door to see if I was p!ssed at her. I said I wasn't and I'll speak to her soon
[NO CONTACT] starting from today.

29.01.10

Went to a Bar with some of the boys, got loads of blatent ioi's. Danced with one girl but failed to number close her, I backed out after I noticed she was playing hard-to-get when we where outside the bar. She gave me a "Wierd" look because of this, no skin off my nose anyhow.

Taylor's B-day
Although I've (No contacted) her for some days now, she texted me asking where her B-day kisses and textes where, I replied later that night, just some fluff talk and she is suspecting who is in leadership here and who isn't. She's begging for my attention now :)
 
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