"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If your have a romantic interest in a woman and maybe wanting to build a good relationship with the lady like I want, my question is when it comes time to introduce yourself to her for the first time even though like in my situation it appears a mutual attraction do you just give her your first name or first and last? And what signs or conversation topics do you give her that you want more than just a buddy relationship?

If this is outlined in another place I'm sorry for wasting space here and please direct me to that area as I plan on tomorrow or Wednesday approaching her again if shes showing interest.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do things with her, go out and do BS stuff. But, if you really want to be with her. Make it known. It is better to know that you are wanted. Than to never know if you would of been wanted.

As for what to bring up in the conversation. Say "Why don't we go out on a "*date*" and hint towards an actual date, not a friendly date. There is a difference.

If she says yeah, you are good. If she says no, get on with your life. YOu have just been put on the friends ladder.
 
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Originally posted by LostDon
Do things with her, go out and do BS stuff. But, if you really want to be with her. Make it known. It is better to know that you are wanted. Than to never know if you would of been wanted.

As for what to bring up in the conversation. Say "Why don't we go out on a "*date*" and hint towards an actual date, not a friendly date. There is a difference.

If she says yeah, you are good. If she says no, get on with your life. YOu have just been put on the friends ladder.
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Ok want about the introduction should I give out my full name or just my first for now or does it matter?

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Full name might come across as pompous, so I'd say first name should do. I don't even give a name typically, I just ask theirs. If she's interested she'll ask yours. It's a good opportunity for some eyecontact cos sometimes she will wait for you to tell her, get impatient and ask. If she doesn't ask take it as a hint that she doesn't wanna know.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Hellboy
Full name might come across as pompous, so I'd say first name should do. I don't even give a name typically, I just ask theirs. If she's interested she'll ask yours. It's a good opportunity for some eyecontact cos sometimes she will wait for you to tell her, get impatient and ask. If she doesn't ask take it as a hint that she doesn't wanna know.
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You know you hit on something Hellboy for one way I was going to approach her again was this way,

Hi remember me? I am sure she will then I'm going to say I wanted to introduce myself but there is a minor problem I am a gentleman and well lady first.

Is that charming or what? Or is that flaky?

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"Bond, James Bond"

What is so hard about saying hello my name is Craig, Charles, Jonathan or whatever and you are?
 
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To be honest I think you're fretting too much over a tiny detail. The whole thing is gonna work much better if it's "unscripted", so to speak. Just talk to her. Ask her name, and use it. If she asks yours, tell it. I wouldn't worry too much about being charming, or gentlemanly, just try to have fun with the convo.
 
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Originally posted by Hellboy
To be honest I think you're fretting too much over a tiny detail. The whole thing is gonna work much better if it's "unscripted", so to speak. Just talk to her. Ask her name, and use it. If she asks yours, tell it. I wouldn't worry too much about being charming, or gentlemanly, just try to have fun with the convo.
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Ok sounds good Hellboy plus its easier to get into the convo with her smoothly being she works in a busy customer service department.

Thanks

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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