"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Kenny

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Great site! Wish I'd discovered it years ago. I'm very impressed with the depth of knowledge to be found here, as well as the supportive tone. It's sites like this that make the net great.

One question: Is there a way to print out the DJ bible in one fell swoop, without having to do it article by article?

Thanks so much.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Paradox

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Welcome Kenny. Feel free to post your questions after you look over the DJ Bible.

Also check out the Mature man forum
 

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Welcome to SoSuave. As for whether it's possible to print out the DJB all at once, I don't believe so (due in large part to the fact that in many cases, the conversation in the thread after the initial post is as interesting as the post that started the discussion in the first place).
 

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Welcome aboard!

Welcome to our BIG happy family, Kenny... Well... we are happy MOST of the time at least:rolleyes: :D


Laterz...
 
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