"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Introducing "Canural Game"...

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dice

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I like the idea of identifying the topics in what she says to continue the conversation and keeping her interest, do you do this in all conversations or just when sarging
 

The Nice Guy is Gone

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I've only just read this, but I think I might have to give it a try--I've never really been into canned routines though.

And I understand that's not what this is, but canned lines, the same thing. We'll see how it goes.
 

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Definitely a good point about playing off of what she says to keep the convo going. Girls don't really want to hear about YOU all the time, they like to talk about themselves and have someone who will listen. If you can show an interest in what they say (not really them) then you will do much better. I don't agree with the number-close you use (I think you should be casual but direct with it to show confidence.... afterall what do you care if she gives it or not?) but anyway good post.
 

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Good post. Lately I've been pressing the "idea of canned game." Mostly ever since The Game came out and people were worried about their routines being blown. The point of all the openers, routines, etc are to find out WHY they work, and then to replicate it with something congruent to yourself.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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Originally posted by pimpfromdayone
Definitely a good point about playing off of what she says to keep the convo going. Girls don't really want to hear about YOU all the time, they like to talk about themselves and have someone who will listen. If you can show an interest in what they say (not really them) then you will do much better. I don't agree with the number-close you use (I think you should be casual but direct with it to show confidence.... afterall what do you care if she gives it or not?) but anyway good post.
This is a good tip, but has anyone read the tip on 'the nod'. The part I bolded is what I'm talking about:

As your listening to what she is saying, you can either keep her talking or get her to quit talking so you can ask her about something else just by nodding. I tested this out the other night, and I was amazed. I haven't completely figured it out yet but here goes:

When she is saying something interesting, keep ec, and nod slightly (a nod, for those of you who don't know, is up & down, not side to side). If you want to direct the conversation elsewhere, simply do not nod.

I was talking to this girl the other day, and I figured I'd try something out that I had read; the nod. Anyways, when she was talking, I gave a slight nod. The key is slight, because you don't want to look like a freak. She kept talking about the subject she was talking about.

Then I decided I didn't want to hear about that anymore, and she didn't say anything else about it when she finished the sentence she was saying after the nod(ding) stopped.
 

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What you are talking about is the only way to effectively use canned material. If you don't have a solid grounding in natural game and you're not a cool guy, it doesn't matter how slick your routines are because you're still a nerd.

"Canural Game" is what people like Mystery, Style, etc. do. Their skills between their routines are congruent to their routine skills, so they don't sound incongruent.

Personally I don't use many routines because my non-routine skills are better than my routine skills. But that is me, individually. If you are a cool guy and you prefer to use routines every once in a while at the right time, it won't hurt you.

-Dan
 

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finally another unique post addressing the topic of canned and routine game, but combining the two wonderfully.

great stuff
 
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