"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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amazingswayze

amazingswayze

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Hey ya'll, I'd like to introduce myself. I go by MR.LPC on this forum. I just graduated High School a few days ago! I'm starting university in the fall.
A little about myself:
I first found SoSuave 1 year ago, after being rejected by my crush who I finally gathered the courage to approach. This experience shaped me into the person I am today. Ever since, I have been dedicated to my self-improvement. I am an optimistic person. I've learned so much in such a short period of time about life in general. I have many personal stories, I just won't share them yet.
This community is amazing, and it has changed my life. I want to get to know you guys.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NorwegianDJ

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NDJ. Been here way too long. Account since like 2010, I first ventured into SoSuave at the end of 7th grade. That's 7 years ago now. Sheez. I still remember the days of deeply inspecting body language and "what do I say?"

Started a journal back in 10th grade. Developed a TON that first year with a lot of books, self-improvement, and social events. Way too many underage girls, but it's ok cause I was so myself. Everything to know about me is in that journal I guess.

I don't come around here a lot anymore. I might start, I might not. I guess I've been a mod for about 2 years now. It's very chill.
 
amazingswayze

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Ruler, I've been watching your videos bro! I rarely see videos from SoSuave posters so it's refreshing when you make a new video. I appreciate your advice bro, things are looking up.
I never had a serious relationship and I've only kissed a few girls. I was not game aware whatsoever until last year. Now I mack girls whenever I get the chance. I'm going through A LOT of rejection right now. It doesn't bother me at all though.
I will start a journal, just not sure if it should include field reports, my thoughts, etc... No worries bro, thanks for your advice... Keep up the good work!
 
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