"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So ever since I've been on Instagram or Snapchat or whatever I haven't really noticed this until now. How do those 8.5's and above get a bf? For example, I consider myself a 8.5-9 on my best day. 6'5" 215 lbs knows how to dress. I see these girls on SM websites occasionally hit em up and they ignore my messages. I understand they probably get several of these a day but how on earth do they ever get interested in a guy? Is it just like of bumping into them through friends or at a bar or something? I never understood that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dicc Blownoff said:
So ever since I've been on Instagram or Snapchat or whatever I haven't really noticed this until now. How do those 8.5's and above get a bf? For example, I consider myself a 8.5-9 on my best day. 6'5" 215 lbs knows how to dress. I see these girls on SM websites occasionally hit em up and they ignore my messages. I understand they probably get several of these a day but how on earth do they ever get interested in a guy? Is it just like of bumping into them through friends or at a bar or something? I never understood that.
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Chicks use snap and insta to boost their ego.
 
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Dicc Blownoff said:
So ever since I've been on Instagram or Snapchat or whatever I haven't really noticed this until now. How do those 8.5's and above get a bf? For example, I consider myself a 8.5-9 on my best day. 6'5" 215 lbs knows how to dress. I see these girls on SM websites occasionally hit em up and they ignore my messages. I understand they probably get several of these a day but how on earth do they ever get interested in a guy? Is it just like of bumping into them through friends or at a bar or something? I never understood that.
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I haven't ever spent a lot of time on SM, but I knew one girl once who got with some rich dude who had like 4 exotic cars. And he would take her driving. Guy still looked like a pansy.
 
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But how would you even start a conversation with someone who has like 5k followers and is obviously popular? Get lucky and hopefully bump into them somewhere?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dicc Blownoff said:
But how would you even start a conversation with someone who has like 5k followers and is obviously popular? Get lucky and hopefully bump into them somewhere?
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I think you’re kind of answering your own question. They are just attention wh0ring online.

And by contacting them online, you’re just another orbiter. It sounds like in your case, you would do better in person.

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Chicks like attention from any man, if you just give it to them for no reason you have identified yourself as a worthless man, willing to trade your ONLY commodity a man has with a chick for NOTHING. Social media is for friends and family, not chicks.
 
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