"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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we all eat food

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ok so i can approach an ugly fat latino chick just jokin around, and the girl in chorus who was a freshman i didnt really care what happened. But i really want to approach this girl who is popular, but i feel inside that she will be like a ***** and not wanna talk to me since im not up to her level and i dont know what to talk about with her. I have chorus and then pyshics with her next period. So i am giving a challenge to myself to approach this so low juicy courtoure jappy lookin ho up!.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sheesh guys, roll with it. Stop planning these encounters. Approaches are not dates! Live your lives and instead of worrying about when to approach one chick, approach each one that seems to be giving off that vibe.
 
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Okay, what's the problem? Or are you just telling us what you are going to do?
 
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yeh ur only gonna be a loser untill u stop saying ur one.. and stop being afraid to approach gurls.. DUDE ALL U GOTTA DO IS SAY HI.. is it that fukin hard.

A couple ways of over coming ur shyness is.

Have the attitude of you dont give a shyt of what people say to u.

start out by saying hi to people u dont know.

Try to find situations to talk to people u dont know.. for example.. the lunch line.. while ur waiting in line just say to the person in back of u or front.. "hey wanna buy this for me" then smile. or just say hi.

DUDE ITS EASY ONCE U DO IT!

U R THE FUKIN MAN! U CAN DO THISS!!!!!! DONT BE AFRAID OF THEM HOT GURLS!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Listen to some 80's rock to get you pumped.
 
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Originally posted by Rad
Listen to some 80's rock to get you pumped.
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Nah Led Zeppelin.
 
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Your are up at her level, you are above her, you dont need this chick, she mite just be auseful addition to you socially.Keep this in mind and if she rejects you it doesnt matter one bit cuz u didnt need it anyway.
 
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we all eat food, lol. I understand what your saying.

You have a bit more reading and CONFIDENCE BUILDING to do now. When you believe you are at, or above her level... that's when you are at, or above her level.

Peace & God Bless
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by we all eat food
im gonna be a loser my whole life :mad:
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You're only 16 - don't worry about how you act now :)
 
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Originally posted by we all eat food
ok so i can approach an ugly fat latino chick just jokin around, and the girl in chorus who was a freshman i didnt really care what happened. But i really want to approach this girl who is popular, but i feel inside that she will be like a ***** and not wanna talk to me since im not up to her level and i dont know what to talk about with her. I have chorus and then pyshics with her next period. So i am giving a challenge to myself to approach this so low juicy courtoure jappy lookin ho up!.
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You are cool around friends and females you dont care about but ackward around females you do care about!

Solution: Mentally approach and talk to here as if whe was your best friend. This is a proven technique. Simply tell your brain when you see a hot girl, if that was my best friend tommy what would I say to him in whatever situation you are in and simply say that!

People's moods and actions change when they change their frame of reference. Once you are able to control your "frame of reference" or the way you say a pariticular sitiuation you can train your mood and actions
 
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