"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Intimidation factor?

solo1

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Anyway usually for that pm class, the girls there have no reaction.
I havent shaved in a week so it could be my new look.
I havent slept in 32 hrs basically cause i couldnt fall asleep the night before. I didnt realize it today until that class that i had a "i dont give a crap vibe", of course lack of sleep can make anyone that way. i spoke fluently and firmly and was me with the part of cool factor, normally ppl that dont turn heads to listen to me did today.

During the whole 3 hrs, there were many random glances from almost all the girls from class. we were in a class discussion so we were in a circle. When i left class, the few of them that i passed even got out of the way for me to walk. if they were in my way they'd apologize.

per say i wasnt really cranky or grumpy. I was all me with that extra boost of confidence for the day. It would be nice if this was permanent.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tazman

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Never go to sleep again!:D Would you believe I'd actually do that if it meant I'd score with the ladies? I sure would. Confidence is trully a powerful thing.
 

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what happened to you isnt a good thing........i dont know why your happy
 

DonJuanMonk

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Hmm... it sounds like you were a "Real Man" for the day.

But do you want to know the core reason for why you become who you were?

A tired man lets go all insecurities, emotions, and fears because he is too tired to put up with that. A real man is the same.
 

Lost In Translation

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the ladies love me

but when i am looking like i crawled out of trash can i get women chasing me like crazy

eyes so bloodshot they are just straight red

no sleep or little / poor sleep

unshaven

clothes old and raggy looking

adidas head to toe

this is counter to everything i see about people saying you gotta look the part all dressed up

clean and what not

when i look like some homeless person or criminal women go nuts

especially chicks 20+


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: Player_Supreme
“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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