"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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intimidated to talk to me

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an older girl tells one of her friends shes intimidated to talk to me, is this a good or bad thing
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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All that means is you gotta do is talk to her first. Problem solved right?

I deal with this on a daily basis man, if you saw me and saw the super-white town im in you'd know why lol. I'm a fairly large dude, I'm like a walking code orange threat alert.

Sometimes you gotta make the contact first and let em know you're cool. Your reason for this is likely different from mine. It's life.
 

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Originally posted by requested
an older girl tells one of her friends shes intimidated to talk to me, is this a good or bad thing
Ask her.
 
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