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and vice versa....
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
intimidated by white chicks.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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A lot depends on the girl and her upbringing.Originally posted by GrimPhallic
Every hot azz chick chick I have been with is semi recist against black doods. In my personal experience hot white girls are NOT into black guys at all. Just throwin out my $0.02...
You messaged me, and I messaged you back. I'm calling your azz out on this one..lets see YOU, in different pics with hot white chicks..AS LONG AS EVERYONE IN THE PIC IS AN ADULT.Originally posted by zolo
IsiMan84
I too am a black athelete at a college, and I get tons of white pvssy.
Some of these guys get mad, I offered to post pics in my thread about me my girlfreind and her roomate, but no one would tell me how. (I did email pics to one of the members, but he never responded.
So, If someone can tell me how to post pics, I will glaly show you some of me, my black friends and white chicks
I'll be waiting....
School
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For some reason I thought black chicks were more intimidating than white....Anyone else think so?
By the way, nobody's getting mad at who anyone dates, but back your shyt up. Unless white women are lying their azz off(which is possible) most hot white women don't date black men. Most white women don't date black men period. No matter how much popular culture, and the media makes you think otherwise.
I get a kick out of some of these black dudes who think us white guys are worried about them taking our women. It doesn't happen enough to worry, and I wouldn't worry even if it did.
Again...my picture
http://profiles.yahoo.com/marine_muscle8541
I get a kick out of some of these black dudes who think us white guys are worried about them taking our women. It doesn't happen enough to worry, and I wouldn't worry even if it did.
Again...my picture
http://profiles.yahoo.com/marine_muscle8541
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Who is intimidating to who, is all a MATTER OF YOU.
If a white gurl scare you, its your fault and if a Black gurl scares you its your fault. Im a Indian guy and im afraid of White chicks yes i am, becuase of their snobbyness and their uptightness, it makes me feel inferior and makes me feel bad about myself, there bodylanguage alone makes me scareed and hate myself. Well then guess what its not the WHITe gurls fault, its your fault for being so insecure. I know that if im scared of white gurls which I AM its my fault for not LIKING myself enough.
I personally am not attracted to Black gurls and its not becuase that they are black but becasue of the attitudes they have I dont like. Plus there physical characteristics, too much botty at TIMEs
White gurls have the attiude of stuckupness which can be overcome by being a DJ, and by the love of yourself. White gurls scare me bcuz i feel that I will get rejected and that i am NOT GOOD ENOUGH. I know i need to work on myself.
We must also accept that there will be cultural diffrences and that as Dj's we must come to grips with that, to rember to work on yourself and change how you think about yourself from a negative view to a postive view.
It is also true who you are makes a diffrence in who gurls choose to go out with, WHITE GURLS DONT EVEN LOOK at me, now I know that I need to be a DJ, but still you must also accept that a white gurl would be attracted to her own kind as a Black gurl would too. So unless your white or black ur assed out, cuz persoanllly i HATE INDIAN GURLS.
SO what wil I do, I WILL IMPROVE ON MYSELF AND MY INSECURITES about how im not good enough, once i can get them to slowly take a back seat then, thats when i know i have done all i can, but there will always be a divide between the races
Who is intimidating to who, is all a MATTER OF YOU.
If a white gurl scare you, its your fault and if a Black gurl scares you its your fault. Im a Indian guy and im afraid of White chicks yes i am, becuase of their snobbyness and their uptightness, it makes me feel inferior and makes me feel bad about myself, there bodylanguage alone makes me scareed and hate myself. Well then guess what its not the WHITe gurls fault, its your fault for being so insecure. I know that if im scared of white gurls which I AM its my fault for not LIKING myself enough.
I personally am not attracted to Black gurls and its not becuase that they are black but becasue of the attitudes they have I dont like. Plus there physical characteristics, too much botty at TIMEs
White gurls have the attiude of stuckupness which can be overcome by being a DJ, and by the love of yourself. White gurls scare me bcuz i feel that I will get rejected and that i am NOT GOOD ENOUGH. I know i need to work on myself.
We must also accept that there will be cultural diffrences and that as Dj's we must come to grips with that, to rember to work on yourself and change how you think about yourself from a negative view to a postive view.
It is also true who you are makes a diffrence in who gurls choose to go out with, WHITE GURLS DONT EVEN LOOK at me, now I know that I need to be a DJ, but still you must also accept that a white gurl would be attracted to her own kind as a Black gurl would too. So unless your white or black ur assed out, cuz persoanllly i HATE INDIAN GURLS.
SO what wil I do, I WILL IMPROVE ON MYSELF AND MY INSECURITES about how im not good enough, once i can get them to slowly take a back seat then, thats when i know i have done all i can, but there will always be a divide between the races
School
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I think it is ridiculous to say Hot white women don't hardly date black men. WHere I am from, that is all you see. And, mixed race children. So, for anyone to say that, they are just being ignorant to the times. And especially crazy to say that HOT white women don't date blacks. Look at Carmen Elektra, she was married to Dennis Rodman. Heidi Klum is married to Seal. So, it is ridiculous to say HOT white girls don't date blacks...
DYPSHYT...THOSE GUYS ARE ALSO FAMOUS. WE'RE TALKING ABOUT THE AVERAGE BLACK GUY. YOU'RE NOT WITH REALITY IF YOU THINK SO MANY WHITE WOMEN WANT BLACK DUDES..AGAIN..POST YOUR FVCKING PICS..OR QUIT YOUR BYTCHING....Originally posted by School
I think it is ridiculous to say Hot white women don't hardly date black men. WHere I am from, that is all you see. And, mixed race children. So, for anyone to say that, they are just being ignorant to the times. And especially crazy to say that HOT white women don't date blacks. Look at Carmen Elektra, she was married to Dennis Rodman. Heidi Klum is married to Seal. So, it is ridiculous to say HOT white girls don't date blacks...
I SHOWED WHO I AM..I HAVEN'T SEEN A DAMN PIC OF YALL YET
.P.S. Carmen Elektra was married to Dennis Rodman for about a week. A marriage that ensued from a drunken binge doesn't exactly count. Besides these two references..where else would we find models and actresses dating black men..you stupid fvck.
i was really pissed when i heard heidi klum got married to a black guy. i couldn't help but thinking "damn, whats wrong with us...".Originally posted by School
I think it is ridiculous to say Hot white women don't hardly date black men. WHere I am from, that is all you see. And, mixed race children. So, for anyone to say that, they are just being ignorant to the times. And especially crazy to say that HOT white women don't date blacks. Look at Carmen Elektra, she was married to Dennis Rodman. Heidi Klum is married to Seal. So, it is ridiculous to say HOT white girls don't date blacks...
School
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I don't know what country you are from, but it happens ALL The Time where I am from.DYPSHYT...THOSE GUYS ARE ALSO FAMOUS. WE'RE TALKING ABOUT THE AVERAGE BLACK GUY. YOU'RE NOT WITH REALITY IF YOU THINK SO MANY WHITE WOMEN WANT BLACK DUDES..AGAIN..POST YOUR FVCKING PICS..OR QUIT YOUR BYTCHING....
Why does it matter what we look like???
All through High School and College, all the WHite CHicks had avarage Black guys. Mostly the Thug types..
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Nothing is wrong with "us". Sometimes cute white chicks do go for black guys. It just doesn't happen very often. Don't let it sway your confidence. 99 percent of white chicks will take you over a black guy. That's the truth.Originally posted by PoS
i was really pissed when i heard heidi klum got married to a black guy. i couldn't help but thinking "damn, whats wrong with us...".
School
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Jprjrjr, I take it you are racist. you don't like blacks....Nothing is wrong with "us". Sometimes cute white chicks do go for black guys. It just doesn't happen very often. Don't let it sway your confidence. 99 percent of white chicks will take you over a black guy. That's the truth.
dude .. just read your local news paper or alternative magazines ..Originally posted by jprjrjr
DYPSHYT...THOSE GUYS ARE ALSO FAMOUS. WE'RE TALKING ABOUT THE AVERAGE BLACK GUY. YOU'RE NOT WITH REALITY IF YOU THINK SO MANY WHITE WOMEN WANT BLACK DUDES..AGAIN..POST YOUR FVCKING PICS..OR QUIT YOUR BYTCHING....
I SHOWED WHO I AM..I HAVEN'T SEEN A DAMN PIC OF YALL YET.
i bet u you'll find 5 or 6 ads of white females who are looking to hook up with blacks and hispanics
I hear you say it, but I'm living here in the USA. Less the 2 percent of marriages in the USA are interracial. Of those, less the one half of one percent are between black and white.Originally posted by School
I don't know what country you are from, but it happens ALL The Time where I am from.
Why does it matter what we look like???
All through High School and College, all the WHite CHicks had avarage Black guys. Mostly the Thug types..
Nobody said it matters what we look like, and if you want to date interracial, I don't have a problem with it.. BUT DON'T ACT LIKE MOST WHITE WOMEN DATE BLACK MEN..IT ISN'T TRUE...
I know plenty of people from Pennsylvania that don't date interracially hard to believe it happens ALL THE TIME... chump
School
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It happens a he11 of alot more than you want to admit!!! I didn't say interracial couples make up a large percentage of the maried population.. I said it happens alot and it is not as rare is you are making it seem. What is the big deal anyway. Who cares?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
5 or 6 ads out of hundreds...you guys are hilarious..PUT YOUR FVCKING PICS UP OF YOU AND HOT WHITE CHICKS....OR SHUT THE FVCK UPOriginally posted by PoS
dude .. just read your local news paper or alternative magazines ..
i bet u you'll find 5 or 6 ads of white females who are looking to hook up with blacks and hispanics
NO MOTHERFVCKER..YOU SAID IT HAPPENS ALL THE TIME.....I'D SAY LESS THAN ONE HALF OF ONE PERCENT IS PRETTY FVCKING RARE...Originally posted by School
It happens a he11 of alot more than you want to admit!!! I didn't say interracial couples make up a large percentage of the maried population.. I said it happens alot and it is not as rare is you are making it seem. What is the big deal anyway. Who cares?
School
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First of all, I am not black. I never said I was black!! I am stating what I see in my area! you don't live here, so you don't know. My girl is black.
I'm telling you what the statistics are dypshyt...I can pull hundreds of personal ads where the white chicks specifically say NO BLACK MEN.Originally posted by School
First of all, I am not black. I never said I was black!! I am stating what I see in my area! you don't live here, so you don't know. My girl is black.
You sound like an azz kissing wimp....Show some pics of these black guys with hot white women..
BECAUSE YOU KNOW WHAT? NOT ONE PIC HAS BEEN SHOWN....P.S. Who the hell said you were black? Sounds like you want to be though
School
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Why does it matter!! You feel insecure?? You feel like black men are taking your white women away?? I don't care who is with who! It doesn't matter to me whether they are white or black. No biggy!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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