"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Interview To Prove I'm Mature

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I droped out of school when I was 16 and i've decided to go back and get my leaveing cert(Final high school test or whatever ye call em) at the age of 18. The course is a year long and i'll have it done by the time im 19 next year. The only probaly is you have to be 21 to go do it at this place and im only 18 so some woman has agreed to meet me and discuss it and I bascilly have to convince her im mature enough to do it. If I don't get this my only other options are wait for 3 years and go do it or go back to school and spent two years doing it and be finshed by the time im 20(Not really an option!!!) So does anyone have any tips on what I sould be aiming to say and do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Make it so that she has to qualify herself to you, adopt that attitude in everything you do. When sitting on that sh1tty chair, looking up to her, relax, lean back, make plenty of seductive eye contact. Like you're totally comfortable.


How smart, drop out of high school.


Take a look at www.fasttrain.com .. or a similar school. That, plus high school, plus two year college, sometime down the road.
 

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TonyWongButOhSoRite said:
I droped out of school when I was 16 and i've decided to go back and get my leaveing cert(Final high school test or whatever ye call em) at the age of 18. The course is a year long and i'll have it done by the time im 19 next year. The only probaly is you have to be 21 to go do it at this place and im only 18 so some woman has agreed to meet me and discuss it and I bascilly have to convince her im mature enough to do it. If I don't get this my only other options are wait for 3 years and go do it or go back to school and spent two years doing it and be finshed by the time im 20(Not really an option!!!) So does anyone have any tips on what I sould be aiming to say and do?

You might be able to go to a communnity college and take classes or just get a GED study guide and do it on your own. Are you in the U.S.?
 

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Stuntmann said:
Make it so that she has to qualify herself to you, adopt that attitude in everything you do. When sitting on that sh1tty chair, looking up to her, relax, lean back, make plenty of seductive eye contact. Like you're totally comfortable.


How smart, drop out of high school.


Take a look at www.fasttrain.com .. or a similar school. That, plus high school, plus two year college, sometime down the road.
Uhh...doesnt he need to qualify himself to her? He is the one trying to get in the program...she doesnt need to prove sh*t.
 

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you basically need to show her that this means everything to you.

you need to:

1) show that you realize how stupid it was to drop out
2) if you have a reason for why you did that makes you look less stupid provide it to her
3) explain to her that you want to make something of yourself and this program is your ticket to a better future.
4) explain that highschool is not the best learning environment for you, that you don';t want to risk falling in to any old patterns, and that this program will allow you to in an environment with less social elements and more of a focus on the tasks at hand.

then re-iterate that other than your family, this opportunity is the most important thing in your life and you will do anything NOT to screw it up.

provided you don't have tattoos and piercings and look like a bisexual monkey f*cker, she is going to have a hard time crushing your dreams for no real reason.

remember, she's already said yes. if the answer was no she wouldn't be meeting with you. so the answer is already yes, provided you meet her criteria.

so go in their confident, do what i said above, and you should be fine.

(btw, dont whine about how much you need this. when you say how important this is say it with clarity, confidence and like you mean it. but whatever you do DO NOT say it in a begging fashion - that comes off as immature).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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