"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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interrupted sleep

6-heads lewis

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my gains havent been as ive hoped, strength is increasing, but weight has barely changed if at all. ive followed rippetoe and ellis advice so my routine is solid, and eat every 2.5 hrs or so, including 2 weight gainer shakes (1k cal, 55g protein), so i dont think a lack of food is my problem.

since ive been consuming this much, i regularly wake up in the middle of the night to go the bathroom. in a 9-hour night, i usually get up around hour 5, and fall back to sleep around hour 6.5. i tried eating after getting up a few times, but couldnt fall back asleep. i usually get around 7 hrs of segmented sleep in a 9 hour night.

the only idea ive come up with is to not eat or drink anything an hour or two before going to bed, but that goes against virtually all advice ive heard.

any ideas? bodybuilding.com articles are full of 'must-have!' supplements that seemingly heal everything from broken legs to itchy pubes, id rather not go that route.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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spesmilitis

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waking up at night happens to me too. Although I go back to sleep pretty fast.

My gains have been alright.

Some body builders get up at night just eat and break that fasting.
 

Warboss Alex

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everyone is different.. for me eating a big meal right before bed and then a dose of GABA has me sleeping like a baby (and snoring like a hog according to the missus).
 
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