"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Interrupt Her!!!!

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a technique advocated by DIRK ZELLER a businessman guru as it were
do 4 approaches in the morning and then you can relax ( chunking theory )4 approaches whatever otherwise you can t have have your daily wank )

the easiest openers are the directional ones

ask some woman on the street where such a in restaurant is
have 4 preplanned contingencies ( or Qs you know by heat parrotfashion - naturally you can always adlib between the contingencies and humor the chick )

Before she s actually done answering your first Q you INTERRUPT HER WITH ANOTHER q ( interrupt concept ) it litarlly forces her to have a convo with you


always use the same negs
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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That's not how I managed to pick up a chick in France.

I went in old school. Just brought her flowers without even knowing her. She let me stay at her place for a whole week. =)

Of course, my french canadian accent probably helped.
 

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main droite

je peux faire un tres bon accent quebecois

c est sur que les francaises reagissent bien a ton accent

moi meme je me fais passer pour un americain et ca marche bien
 

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ALPHAROMEO said:
main droite

je peux faire un tres bon accent quebecois

c est sur que les francaises reagissent bien a ton accent

moi meme je me fais passer pour un americain et ca marche bien
Mind translating?!
 

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He says he can mimic the french canadian accent pretty well, that french ladies dig it and that he sometimes says he's american to have a better chance with them.

Alpharomeo, Where are you from, mate? If you ARE french, I highly doubt you can do an even remotely convincing imitation of the montreal accent (no offense) ;) . Fact is: germans are better at it than the french themselves because FC has many, many more vowels that you simply cannot find in France (but actually do in germany). So far, only Gad Elmahleh has managed to do it and it's still not perfect.

Of course french ladies react very well to the montreal accent... but not only them. If you travel anywhere in the french-speaking areas of the world with a Quebecer accent, every single people will want to be your friend, including dudes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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its partly true MainDroite
i have a friend who's from Quebec and his accent is sucks ! ;p
no offense bro i have a lot of friends from Montreal that have a really good accent sounds like american sometimes
but my Quebec friend have a different accent and sometimes it just make me laugh !

about interrupting :
its not always working if you doing that wrong you will be consider rude
basically its a principle you can find in NLP
'Peacing & Leading'
you need to listen to her and when you get all the attention you now can interrupt her without being rude
 

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Quebecers definitely have the best swear words - "hostie de câlice de tabarnak", lol.

A bit off topic, but I think francophones have an advantage over anglophones with the whole accent thing - English with a French accent sounds sophisticated, French with an English accent, not so much. Although I once dated a French Canadian girl in Montreal (I'm English Canadian btw) - we spoke French all the time, she told me my English accent was sexy (not sure I believed her though!)

In general, it's a big plus with women in other countries if you can speak their language well - my brother speaks fluent German and he got a lot of mileage out of that in Germany - women there were amazed that a Canadian could speak German so well - it was a great conversation booster for him.
 

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MainDroite said:
That's not how I managed to pick up a chick in France.

I went in old school. Just brought her flowers without even knowing her. She let me stay at her place for a whole week. =)

Of course, my french canadian accent probably helped.
I spent 2 nights with an American girl and then brought her flowers to her work and she dumped me. Worst mistake I ever made.
 
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