"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Interrupt Her!!!!

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a technique advocated by DIRK ZELLER a businessman guru as it were
do 4 approaches in the morning and then you can relax ( chunking theory )4 approaches whatever otherwise you can t have have your daily wank )

the easiest openers are the directional ones

ask some woman on the street where such a in restaurant is
have 4 preplanned contingencies ( or Qs you know by heat parrotfashion - naturally you can always adlib between the contingencies and humor the chick )

Before she s actually done answering your first Q you INTERRUPT HER WITH ANOTHER q ( interrupt concept ) it litarlly forces her to have a convo with you


always use the same negs
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That's not how I managed to pick up a chick in France.

I went in old school. Just brought her flowers without even knowing her. She let me stay at her place for a whole week. =)

Of course, my french canadian accent probably helped.
 

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main droite

je peux faire un tres bon accent quebecois

c est sur que les francaises reagissent bien a ton accent

moi meme je me fais passer pour un americain et ca marche bien
 

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ALPHAROMEO said:
main droite

je peux faire un tres bon accent quebecois

c est sur que les francaises reagissent bien a ton accent

moi meme je me fais passer pour un americain et ca marche bien
Mind translating?!
 

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He says he can mimic the french canadian accent pretty well, that french ladies dig it and that he sometimes says he's american to have a better chance with them.

Alpharomeo, Where are you from, mate? If you ARE french, I highly doubt you can do an even remotely convincing imitation of the montreal accent (no offense) ;) . Fact is: germans are better at it than the french themselves because FC has many, many more vowels that you simply cannot find in France (but actually do in germany). So far, only Gad Elmahleh has managed to do it and it's still not perfect.

Of course french ladies react very well to the montreal accent... but not only them. If you travel anywhere in the french-speaking areas of the world with a Quebecer accent, every single people will want to be your friend, including dudes.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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its partly true MainDroite
i have a friend who's from Quebec and his accent is sucks ! ;p
no offense bro i have a lot of friends from Montreal that have a really good accent sounds like american sometimes
but my Quebec friend have a different accent and sometimes it just make me laugh !

about interrupting :
its not always working if you doing that wrong you will be consider rude
basically its a principle you can find in NLP
'Peacing & Leading'
you need to listen to her and when you get all the attention you now can interrupt her without being rude
 

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Quebecers definitely have the best swear words - "hostie de câlice de tabarnak", lol.

A bit off topic, but I think francophones have an advantage over anglophones with the whole accent thing - English with a French accent sounds sophisticated, French with an English accent, not so much. Although I once dated a French Canadian girl in Montreal (I'm English Canadian btw) - we spoke French all the time, she told me my English accent was sexy (not sure I believed her though!)

In general, it's a big plus with women in other countries if you can speak their language well - my brother speaks fluent German and he got a lot of mileage out of that in Germany - women there were amazed that a Canadian could speak German so well - it was a great conversation booster for him.
 

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MainDroite said:
That's not how I managed to pick up a chick in France.

I went in old school. Just brought her flowers without even knowing her. She let me stay at her place for a whole week. =)

Of course, my french canadian accent probably helped.
I spent 2 nights with an American girl and then brought her flowers to her work and she dumped me. Worst mistake I ever made.
 
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