"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Interracial relationships, good or bad?

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toddlips

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Hey, first off, I want to say that I personally thing interracial relationships are a beautiful thing. I have nothing against a white woman wanting to be with a brotha. But I wanted to ask the board this: are interracial relationships healthy?

I'm not even talking white and black relationships, per se. My friend is with this mongolian girl and they get into brawls once a month. She's even broken her arm twice from punching him. Although, he does tell me the "hate-sex" is great. He is white and like I said, she's got some Ghengis Kahn in her. Do you think that they fight because of the cultural differences?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Way too touchy of a subject. No offence to the OP, but this should probably be locked immediately or a battle will follow.
 

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Nah, it has nothing to do with the fact that she's of a different race. More that she's a crazy b1tch. How the hell do you break arm from punching someone. Twice!
 

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theunflushables said:
Nah, it has nothing to do with the fact that she's of a different race. More that she's a crazy b1tch. How the hell do you break arm from punching someone. Twice!
i completely agree. her race has nothing to do with her being crazy.
how the heck do you break your arm from punching someone?
clearly someone needs a trip to the psych ward!
 

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"Do you think that they fight because of the cultural differences?"

No.

Some people just have anger problems and other people are the kindest people you could ever meet.

You'll find the different types all throughout every race on the planet.

An interracial relationship just like a relationship between two people of the same race is only as good, kind and stable as both of the people in it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is the MOST absurd question i have almost ever heard.
 

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Date who you want, and quit worrying about what others think of it.
 

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Question answered. Thread closed
 
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