You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
id haveto disagree on that partly... most chicks might like a different race... if they EVER GAVE THEM A CHANCE. but as human nature... everybody stereotypes.Francisco d'Anconia said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
umm no ****?... im pretty sure we all knew THAT.Bling said:
Yea I saw this on another thread here years ago. Here was one example. A hot asian girl would much rather go out with a funny confident white guy over some nerdy asian guy who sits inside and plays PS2 all day. When I saw that quote, my worries about my favorite type not being won over ended. Good luck on the girls(to the topic starter of course)Francisco d'Anconia said: