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Interpreting subtle kino from her

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Interpreting her subtle kino?

Met a girl at dinner through a mutual friend about six months ago. The introduction went surprisingly well as I had brought my Don Juan a-game and flirted without a care in the world.

I noticed signs of interest from her (I was interested too), but never heard from her again. Just your standard encounter at a University... I didn't bother pursuing her since we had met briefly and so matter of factly. Still though, I thought she was a damn cool (and attractive) girl.

Turns out she's in one of my classes this semester. I approached her after class one day and said "Hey, are you ______?". She nodded and I asked if she remembered me. She said she didn't, which didn't phase me, considering we met for twenty minutes half a year ago.

I then went on to re-introduce myself and reminded her of the dinner. The second that I mentioned the time we met, she subtly grabbed my wrist and said "Oh yea!". She knew exactly who I was and seemed to remember me fondly. She's always showed strong eye contact too.

For some reason the kino on her end felt to me like a dead give away that she's interested. Almost like it was an involuntary indicator of her attraction.

I'm hoping this is a no brainer... any thoughts?
 
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Guess no one thinks anything of this. I know it's nothing major, I just found it to be inviting.

I usually only get kino from girls who are drunk, out on a date with me or who know me well.
 

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....Or maybe it was an involuntary reaction on her part for remembering a stranger (you've only met once) from half a year ago, who seemed to remember her pretty well...

Don't overanalyze this stuff bro. :nono:

With Kino, you have to get Kino started. You have to initiate. You have to lead. Women are reactive in nature so she will feel whatever you are feeling first few times that you interact with her. If you act non-chalant and fun, your body language will communicate that. One of these will include Kino'ing her which will look very subtle and unconscious from her point of view (but from your point of view, it could be deliberate...nothing wrong with that). When you start Kino'ing, she will react and EITHER Kino you back (if she has interest) OR not Kino you back (usually not interested but some shy girls are awkward at doing this).
 

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The Bat said:
....Or maybe it was an involuntary reaction on her part for remembering a stranger (you've only met once) from half a year ago, who seemed to remember her pretty well...
Advice taken. But for the record, I didn't "seem to remember her pretty well" which sounds creepy. I simply just re-introduced myself. She remembered who I was right away, who we ate with, and where we ate. That prompted the kino.

And in doing a little research I found this:

"If she touches you while she is talking, like tapping you on the forearm when trying to make a point, then remember to tell her what you like for breakfast so she knows what to cook in the morning."
I'm not saying it's the be all end all, but I want to feel confident that she is attracted to me.
 
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