Interpreting her texts; something I have noticed...

[AJL]

Hey guys, this is something I have noticed recently, I would be interested to hear if you guys have had similar experiences. I am certainly not a 'Don Juan'; more an AFC turned Average moderately successful guy.


Obviously if you recieve a test from a girl for seemingly no reason it is a good sign. Even if it not necessarily a guarantee she is into you, I wouldn't consider it a terrible thing in any case.

The thing I have noticed is this; if you recieve a text saying something like "Hey how are you?" then perhaps she is somewhat interested. Maybe she is just really bored and felt like texting someone as a way of filling in 5 minutes. Only she knows her motives.

If however you get a message along the lines of "Hey I heard X song on the radio and I know you like it, how are you?" then there may be reason to believe she likes you. She is not just texting you for no reason; she is texting for no reason AND trying to give an excuse to justify it, and that is the factor here.


Has anybody else had similar experiences to this? I would be interested to know, as it almost always seems to be the case with me.

 

[Phat]

If any girl texts you saying a song reminds them of you, it means they miss you. And obviously you don't miss things you don't like. You miss things you like.

 

[AJL]

If any girl texts you saying a song reminds them of you, it means they miss you. And obviously you don't miss things you don't like. You miss things you like.

This is true.


I am not just talking about the hearing a song thing, that was just an example. It can be anything at all, eg.

-I heard a song that reminded me of you
-I saw you earlier
-Are you 'doing X insignificant event'?

Just things that are obvious excuses to text somebody for no reason.

 

[jophil28]

Just things that are obvious excuses to text somebody for no reason.

Women never do things "for no reason".. there is always a reason, even though it may not be apparent to you.

 

[Phat]

dont talk to her to much or else you might ruin her intentions, let her reveal her intentions by making her chase you. Let her do all the talking. Her intentions will unraval and you will be able to find out for sure what it is that she wants. Just keep an eye out for what shes trying to get out of you.

 

[r0cky]

If she's contacting you, she's thinking about you. Thats all the indication of interest I need to make my move.

 

[HeyPachuco!]

Women never do things "for no reason".. there is always a reason, even though it may not be apparent to you.

Is it?

So a girl randomly calling me to say the "gym is closed" But when I try to open her from it, she sighs and says she has to go?

Then nothing of it after that?

 

[jophil28]

Is it?

So a girl randomly calling me to say the "gym is closed" But when I try to open her from it, she sighs and says she has to go?

Then nothing of it after that?

Did that actually happen, or or you just tossing in a hypothetical ?

 

[horaholic]

Keep in mind, women are textaholics these days, and they can and do text for little reason whatsoever.

For all you know, she is only texting you cuz some guy is boring her, and she wants a distraction.

Or, on the contrary, she might feed yo a line of BS, like "I heard this song that reminded me of you," as a manipulation tactic. Hell, I've done it. Of course, a little while later, i told her that it was "I like big butts. lol" just to ruffle her feathers.

Always respond with entertaining c+f.

 

[HeyPachuco!]

Did that actually happen, or or you just tossing in a hypothetical ?

Thats exactly what happend.

I thought it was very unlikely that this chick would even call, let alone tell me the gym was closed ( giving me a heads up ) So what are you telling me? She done this for a reason? Because when I tried to open her from it, she started giving me that "sigh bla bla " tone.

Nothing came out of it afterwards - I even texted her a week after, zilch reply.