So...early in high school I was really into a girl I knew through mutual friends. I became close friends with her and spoke with her nearly every night on the phone. Being stupid and immature, I tried to gather whether she felt more for me through my friends rather than making a move early on like I should have. She wasn't interested and we drifted and eventually stopped talking.
Fast forward 7 years...
I find her on myspace and she just happens to have moved to my area recently. I message her a few times and we have a long conversation on the phone where she mentions a boyfriend over an hour into it. :trouble: I'm off the phone a few minutes after I hear about the boyfriend...
Fast forward 3-4 months...
She sends me an email asking how I'm doing and I send an obligatory reply. She text messages me a few days later and asks if I want to go see a movie tonight. I message her back and she says that she asked a couple of other people to come and one couldn't make it and the other didn't answer so it was just the two of us. I went and we talked a bit, but there were no fireworks or anything. I didn't ask about her boyfriend directly and she didn't bring him up in our conversation. I talked to her on the phone a few days ago again and she says she gets treated by a chiropractor she met through her boyfriend (she calls him by his name and doesn't refer to him as a boyfriend though). She texts me a few days later saying she wants to see another movie together and I said "sure, let's grab something to eat beforehand" to which she agreed. She says she'll hang out near the area we're supposed to meet at until I'm done with work.
Now, I have no idea if she has a boyfriend anymore, but it's hella shady if she does and she's eating dinner and going to the movies with other guys. What do you guys think? Is there a good chance she doesn't have one anymore or is considering dumping him or is she just doing something platonic with me or using me for attention?
I was thinking of meeting her for dinner and asking about her boyfriend frankly. If he's still in the picture, we both pay for our own meals and movies and I start breaking off contact with her.
Fast forward 7 years...
I find her on myspace and she just happens to have moved to my area recently. I message her a few times and we have a long conversation on the phone where she mentions a boyfriend over an hour into it. :trouble: I'm off the phone a few minutes after I hear about the boyfriend...
Fast forward 3-4 months...
She sends me an email asking how I'm doing and I send an obligatory reply. She text messages me a few days later and asks if I want to go see a movie tonight. I message her back and she says that she asked a couple of other people to come and one couldn't make it and the other didn't answer so it was just the two of us. I went and we talked a bit, but there were no fireworks or anything. I didn't ask about her boyfriend directly and she didn't bring him up in our conversation. I talked to her on the phone a few days ago again and she says she gets treated by a chiropractor she met through her boyfriend (she calls him by his name and doesn't refer to him as a boyfriend though). She texts me a few days later saying she wants to see another movie together and I said "sure, let's grab something to eat beforehand" to which she agreed. She says she'll hang out near the area we're supposed to meet at until I'm done with work.
Now, I have no idea if she has a boyfriend anymore, but it's hella shady if she does and she's eating dinner and going to the movies with other guys. What do you guys think? Is there a good chance she doesn't have one anymore or is considering dumping him or is she just doing something platonic with me or using me for attention?
I was thinking of meeting her for dinner and asking about her boyfriend frankly. If he's still in the picture, we both pay for our own meals and movies and I start breaking off contact with her.