"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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iliketennis

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pretty hot chick in her late 20s. i'm 25. got her number at a party, she gave a few IOIs. 2 days later i called and talked for a while, she laughed at everything i said. made a date for tonight.

things went well i thought.. for instance when i picked her up and complained about my washer/dryer she said i can do my laundry anytime at her place. she was asking me about myself at dinner, laughing a lot, drinking alcohol.

but when i move toward her physically she backed away. the kino was totally unnatural it made me think she was disinterested. i've never been around a girl, interested or not, that was so resistant to physical contact. at my place we were watching a movie and she sat against the very edge of the loveseat.

then when i drop her off she hugs me kisses me cheek. says she had fun. then texts me 20 minutes later saying she had a great time and thanks.

are all the IOIs just fake? is she just going on dates to pay for dinner? planning to go NC to test it. i have another new date tomorrow night anyway.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Go nc for a week. If she contacts you talk normal...emotionless. Plan another date for next week and this time MAKE THE HOE SAY NO.
 
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yea, seems like you did everything fine, sometimes women's behavior is illogical so situations like this could happen...

she might be one of those girls who like to wait and really dont kiss on first dates.... so that could be a possibility...

wait for her to contact you, or wait a week and call again, or if she contacts you sooner, plan a second date, if she agrees, go for it, if she puts excuses, then HARD next her for good.

its not that hard... and if you go out with her a second time, EXPECT A KISS... if she declines, don't talk about it, just excuse yourself and tell her that thigns are not working for you and that you will drop her back to her house... and leave it at that... and see how she replies..

no talking about why she doesnt seem into you.. THAT will only KILL whatever little attraction she might have left for you.

good luck
 
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