"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Internship in Ireland

DrMetallica

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hey I'm trying to get a job or internship in Ireland or the UK this summer. I'm an Irish citizen so I don't need any visas or any of that. Where should I begin to look?

I tried looking online and it is all geared towards Americans and how to get visas, and all that. Btw, I'm majoring in accounting so I'd like something like that but I'll take what I can get.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Centaurion

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Don't your university have any sort of a Career Centre? They should usually be able to hook you up with something.
 

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I'm pretty sure you'll need some kind of diplomatic paperwork, if not a visa, because you don't have an Irish address. Email the embassy in Washington and hope they reply - last time I emailed them they never did.
 

DrMetallica

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Yeah fug the Irish embassy in Washington. But I don't need any paperwork since I have a nice pink (maroon?) Irish passport. I need a job.

Alright cheers guys I'm gonna check out the study abroad office tomorrow n see what they have to say (even though for me it isn't studying abroad!!!!)
 
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