Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

Internet Stalking (welcome to our dark side)

Black Widow Void

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 24, 2010
Messages
2,183
Reaction score
3,850
This is not to suggest that I entirely condone this behavior. I don't. I've never snooped on a woman's computer or attempted to look at her cellphone. You could say that I draw the line at some point.

However, for those of you that still do online dating, you don't enjoy or appreciate getting deceived. Surely, you'd like to avoid any undeserving emotional investments, avoid meeting someone of the 'bait & switch' variety etc...

Below, I provide some tips that will reduce your chances of being deceived.

Let's say that her profile name is sugarplum393939.
You put quotations at the beginning of her name and at the end ie: "sugarplum393939" and do a google search.
A lot of times, you'll see other social media sites ; which contain contradictions to the person she's currently projecting.
I avoided a few white-trash gals by viewing their instragram profiles.

Let's say that her profile description contains something real unique.
such as --- I enjoy riding my unicycle while reading the Sunday paper.
You highlight the unique sentence and then copy it over to the google search engine (adding quotations before and after her sentence) ie; "I enjoy riding my unicycle while reading the Sunday paper." If she's written this before and some place else, you'll know where and also if her photos are different.

The image option on google does not seem to work as well these days, but you can try to 'drag' her photo into the google image search and sometimes (at least in the past) you'll find other sites where the same photo resides. Sometimes you'll discover that she' s using fake profile pics. Other times, you could learn something new.
I avoided meeting two married women by doing this.

Is her e-mail unique? Let's say that it's funkychickenru12@yahoo . Okay, forget about the yahoo part. Instead, type "funkychickenru12" into google and anything else with this unique name will appear.
I avoided a gal that was supposedly sugar and spice (she had posted all over multiple sex forums).

Always check competing on line dating sites for her profile as well. Half the time, you'll see an age contradiction, photos could be different (entirely different) and also contradictory profile descriptions.

Searching and finding shoulders and below photos isn't always easy. Even on facebook, they can choose which photos to share, However, there's one glitch to their ploy. Let's say her name is Anita Lobotomy. Rather than searching her profile by name. Instead type in... photos tagged of Anita Lobotomy. You'd be surprised how many embarrassing photos they didn't allow on their profile, but are out there for your discrepancy.

Curious about that gal from high school? Unsure if she's married or still married?
Peoplefinders dot com offers a free search tool. Let's say that you knew her as Allison Wonderland. You do a search under this site and it will show if her maiden name has changed. Is she now divorced? Only her facebook account probably knows for sure.

As another member has mentioned, do not use your default facebook account. If you do, there's a likelihood that your profile will eventually show up to her under the "people you may know" section. You want to avoid that. Instead, clear your web browsers cookies, history and caches files. Create a new account under a name such as Justin Sane. Use this account for any dark-side moments.

Of course, it's likely that some members will respond about how creepy this posting appears; claiming that they'd "never do such a thing." Fair enough. there are still men out there that claim that internet pornography is a sin and that they'd also "never do such a thing."
In other words... make these claims all you wish, but I won't believe you, nor will others.
 
Last edited:

MrWood

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 15, 2016
Messages
1,784
Reaction score
1,201
Age
58
Location
Scandinavia
decent writeup with no hype,
as someone with an "extensive" involvement in computer security dark art... good job.

I always think people know this stuff, its basics, heh
 

Serenity

Moderator
Joined
Aug 19, 2013
Messages
4,952
Reaction score
4,773
Age
32
Location
Eye of the storm
I always think people know this stuff, its basics, heh
You'd be disappointed to know how few knows how to do this or even think about it.

Sh!tty people usually make really stupid privacy decisions and leave a long trail of information publicly available on the internet. The worst people are easy to find online, fortunately.
 

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,699
Reaction score
801
Age
40
I also posted before how you can use spydailer and plug their number in and it will give you their full name which you can then use to search facebook and see their more realistic pics.

As I said this has saved me probably at least 6 times the last few months from dates from undesirables.
 

RickTheToad

Moderator
Joined
Apr 21, 2018
Messages
6,429
Reaction score
4,994
Location
Bridgeport, CT
This is not to suggest that I entirely condone this behavior. I don't. I've never snooped on a woman's computer or attempted to look at her cellphone. You could say that I draw the line at some point.

However, for those of you that still do online dating, you don't enjoy or appreciate getting deceived. Surely, you'd like to avoid any undeserving emotional investments, avoid meeting someone of the 'bait & switch' variety etc...

Below, I provide some tips that will reduce your chances of being deceived.

Let's say that her profile name is sugarplum393939.
You put quotations at the beginning of her name and at the end ie: "sugarplum393939" and do a google search.
A lot of times, you'll see other social media sites ; which contain contradictions to the person she's currently projecting.
I avoided a few white-trash gals by viewing their instragram profiles.

Let's say that her profile description contains something real unique.
such as --- I enjoy riding my unicycle while reading the Sunday paper.
You highlight the unique sentence and then copy it over to the google search engine (adding quotations before and after her sentence) ie; "I enjoy riding my unicycle while reading the Sunday paper." If she's written this before and some place else, you'll know where and also if her photos are different.

The image option on google does not seem to work as well these days, but you can try to 'drag' her photo into the google image search and sometimes (at least in the past) you'll find other sites where the same photo resides. Sometimes you'll discover that she' s using fake profile pics. Other times, you could learn something new.
I avoided meeting two married women by doing this.

Is her e-mail unique? Let's say that it's funkychickenru12@yahoo . Okay, forget about the yahoo part. Instead, type "funkychickenru12" into google and anything else with this unique name will appear.
I avoided a gal that was supposedly sugar and spice (she had posted all over multiple sex forums).

Always check competing on line dating sites for her profile as well. Half the time, you'll see an age contradiction, photos could be different (entirely different) and also contradictory profile descriptions.

Searching and finding shoulders and below photos isn't always easy. Even on facebook, they can choose which photos to share, However, there's one glitch to their ploy. Let's say her name is Anita Lobotomy. Rather than searching her profile by name. Instead type in... photos tagged of Anita Lobotomy. You'd be surprised how many embarrassing photos they didn't allow on their profile, but are out there for your discrepancy.

Curious about that gal from high school? Unsure if she's married or still married?
Peoplefinders dot com offers a free search tool. Let's say that you knew her as Allison Wonderland. You do a search under this site and it will show if her maiden name has changed. Is she now divorced? Only her facebook account probably knows for sure.

As another member has mentioned, do not use your default facebook account. If you do, there's a likelihood that your profile will eventually show up to her under the "people you may know" section. You want to avoid that. Instead, clear your web browsers cookies, history and caches files. Create a new account under a name such as Justin Sane. Use this account for any dark-side moments.

Of course, it's likely that some members will respond about how creepy this posting appears; claiming that they'd "never do such a thing." Fair enough. there are still men out there that claim that internet pornography is a sin and that they'd also "never do such a thing."
In other words... make these claims all you wish, but I won't believe you, nor will others.
How did you get my Yahoo e-mail address?
 

Black Widow Void

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 24, 2010
Messages
2,183
Reaction score
3,850
decent writeup with no hype,
as someone with an "extensive" involvement in computer security dark art... good job.

I always think people know this stuff, its basics, heh
Thanks. By the way if you (or anyone else reading) would like to add some additional tips, feel free. Biggoal added a tip and all others are encouraged as well.
 

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,699
Reaction score
801
Age
40
Someone ssid if you look at their facebook you will show up at suggested friends. Even if you didnt look at their page you can still show up if you were simply texting with them because most people tie their cell number to their fb and it will suggest them. I noticed this even before I look them up. If you allow facebook access to your phone contacts and such.
 

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,699
Reaction score
801
Age
40
And in top of that when you text with someone and they have a google account tied to their phone their full name will show up as well.
 

sosousage

Banned
Joined
Aug 22, 2017
Messages
3,596
Reaction score
1,236
Age
33
also dont use your google account to login in various websites that offer such feature cause it will use your real name


as of social media, if u peek on someone, he may see ur account poppin up

rest i didnt read
 

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,699
Reaction score
801
Age
40
also dont use your google account to login in various websites that offer such feature cause it will use your real name


as of social media, if u peek on someone, he may see ur account poppin up

rest i didnt read
Totally agree. But as I said simply texting with someone they will likely see your last name once your google account shows up at the top of the text message and since Facebook is tied into your phone you can still show up as a suggested friend even if you never looked at their profile.

Like my neighbor for example I was texting. I never looked him up on facebook until after I sent him a text message then suddenly he shows up even though he has no mutual friends.

When you use facebook and google your name is all over the place.

And as I said. Once a chick gets your cell number she can just use websites like spydailer and put your number in and get your name that way.

Like that OLD date in Oct that chick told me she was never married. When I plugged her name in it turns out she was divorced and also being sue back when she was a state trooper.

Why would a woman want to hide the fact that she's divorced?

That is why I say men should be the same way. Fudge up your OLD accounts, job status, looks, etc. Women lie constantly. It's warefare.
 
Top