"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MindOverMatter

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you implied she was lonely, and she assumed that you thought she was some kind of person who can't meet people in real life and is forced to resort to meeting them online (i.e. desperate). that's why she got pissed off and blocked you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MixMaxster

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i find women to jump the gun too quickly and start going off about all these things that i didn't mean, but that she interpreted as being.

Much like this, you weren't trying to piss her off and insult her because you weren't taking it all seriously and trying to have fun. She on the other hand thought you were being a ****head and were insulting her.

Now one thing that ALWAYS has me confused is why a girl will BLOCK you, but not delete you from her list. What is she doing? saving you as a backup in case you two are the only ones left alive or something?

Hell if i know
 

Alpine

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English, give him the AIM, it would be interesting to see how she reacts to a different approach, like an experiment.

She might turn out to be a nice person. If she's a troll it would be fun to wind her up, or is that too evil?
 

Dark Nimbus

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That would actually be a fun experiment, get a few guys to mack on the same girl online and see what their results are, and post them up for everyone to compare and critique. The only rule would have to be that she doesn't see any photos of the guys, to keep this strictly a personality/approach experiement.
 

ScrewIt

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Ah...the phase of denial, you know what that means! she IS lonely
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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englishcrap

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Sorry mate she never blocked me meant to say she just logged me off.


Originally posted by MixMaxster
i find women to jump the gun too quickly and start going off about all these things that i didn't mean, but that she interpreted as being.

Much like this, you weren't trying to piss her off and insult her because you weren't taking it all seriously and trying to have fun. She on the other hand thought you were being a ****head and were insulting her.

Now one thing that ALWAYS has me confused is why a girl will BLOCK you, but not delete you from her list. What is she doing? saving you as a backup in case you two are the only ones left alive or something?

Hell if i know
 

MrHarris

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Well I guess this is an example of the C&F backfiring or the bust her balls theory not working out then. She sure typed like she was mad.
 
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