"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Internet Marketing ?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Internet vs. Real Estate? Those two things are very different.
However, I have a feeling that there will soon be a big shift to the Internet for Real Estate agents and agencies, etc. I was talking to someone a little while ago (financial expert or something like that), and he said that some predict that in 10 years a lot of real estate agents and agencies will be gone because of real estate sales on the Internet.
For example, you can buy land/homes through eBay. It may not be that popular of a choice yet, but a lot of websites that sell real estate are forcing agencies to get with the program.
The future of most sales is on the Internet.
I don't have experience with marketing real estate or stuff like that yet. But I do have a project coming along that would relate the two.
...so what do you think of Internet Marketing?
What conferences did you go to, who did you meet and talk to?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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That's true. I misunderstood. Yeah, a website is real estate, definitely.Analytic said:
I agree, Warrior is too crowded and too many people have biased opinions based on what they are trying to sell you. I think it's okay at times, but it depends what you are really trying to do. Digitalpoint is better, yeah.
I also like Sitepoint, although that's geared more towards the back-end of websites, etc. But you can learn a lot.
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The subject really stuck in my head, and I've found the concept very helpful...
Mark was explaining something called the TIO...The Irresistible Offer
When you're doing a product pitch, you have to sell the customer a glass, and then you sell them a second glass...something like that. Basically, you make your marketing pitch such that it's catchy enough to almost sound too good, and almost challenges yourself to deliver. But at the same time, you make sure you deliver enough that it naturally builds buzz about your product.
For example...Mark talked about how Dominos pizza used to have the "30 minute delivery or it's free" thing. It made Dominos pizza the #1 pizza chain in the world for a little while...just because of that irresistible offer. Some people would just get the pizza to see if they could get it for free. I remember it too.
But then I guess it was getting dangerous for the drivers to continue with it, so they stopped that marketing campaign. But the point is, it was an irresistible offer. I've learned a little to incorporate this on my ad copies / sales pitches for my ebooks online. For example, I do a "if you can show this doesn't work, I'll give you 200% of your money back" type deal.
Just some thoughts. Hope that helps. I'm still learning myself, so it's not like I got everything on lock...but I would definitely recommend Mark Joyner's material, Joe Vitale, and also Dan Kennedy...he has some good Internet marketing tips.
Good luck. Hopefully Analytic will pitch in with some tips too
He knows a lot more than me.