"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just curious, has anyone on here used Craig's List to find someone? Well, I posted a supposedly fabulous post there and got 4 replies. I've been talking to 2 of them and after a brief exchange, I sent both of them my pics late Sunday (10/23) night. I'm just wondering, how long should I wait for them to reply before I panic and come to the conclusion the pics did me in? I'm somewhat surprised I didn't get a reply considering how fast the previous replies were. I know I shouldn't seem rattled, but I am.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF Bro, its the ****ing internet. Who cares what some ***** thinks, honestly man if you're rattled but some random girl online... then I'd hate to see you in an actual conversation with a woman face to face.
 
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if u sarge online..

you better sarge large

and be same guy in person as on the phone
 
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As I said in a couple other posts here I've had alot of experience (too much) w/online dating. I agree w/the two posters above me pretty much to a T. The short answer to your quandary is just the old cliche, "Don't worry about it." Literally. That's all there is to it. Becoming "rattled" by some online b!mbo is simply not an option for those of us with Y chromosomes and a pair of balls. It's online BS first of all. Secondly, there are tons of guys on those sites and the girls are getting bombarded constantly by others. If they click w/someone else in the meantime , like in between emails to or from you, and then all contact from her just suddenly stops, lesson 1 of online dating is it's NEVER personal. They don't even know you. It doesn't even qualify as a rejection.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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