"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Internet dating is SO EASY (read on)

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Whether you do better online or meeting gals in person all depends upon your particular strengths and weakenesses.

Internet dating puts much, much, much more importance on demographics and statistics: age, income, occupation, etc. If you have a good resume' for someone your age and a decent pic, and you mainly date women who are close to your age, you'll probably do better online. Based on personal experience, I'd say looks are a bit more important online, where it's not as easy to compensate with charisma and style. Writing skills can compensate, but can only take you so far. If you don't meet her criteria or she's not that knockout attracted to your pic, you're SOL online. period. That's why reverse matching works better, and it's best not to write long emails. The ones to write are the ones who don't contact guys, but would write you if they did.

What annoys me about this thread, quite frankly, is that here's a young fellow with a good enough pic that a fair percentage of women tell him he's "****ING GORGEOUS" telling everyone else how "easy" internet dating is. It's like a marathon runner saying how running a 10K in 35 minutes is nothing.

The "AFC/DJ" bullsh1t is way overrated. You can be DJ to the core, but you're not going to "successfully sarge" any online prospects if you're not in their age or income range; whereas you might be able to knock 'em out with your charisma in person, so they'll be rationalizing away the other stuff to be with you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bonhomme - without a shadow of a doubt, if ur going for women who are over the age of 24, u will have NO success on the internet.....places like myspace.com, buddypic.com, ect are all for 14-21 id say, with the best and easiest girls being 18

and like i said, if u take all the girls ive tried to "holla" at on the internet, the totals are about 30 sayin im really gorgeous, 100 sayin im hot, and ALOT saying im either cute or ok...couple said im ugly, SO WHAT? out of those 130 that thought i was at least hot, i musta ended up ****in like 30-35 of them, ITS ALL A NUMBERS GAME
 
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Hey skip buddy, the best and quickest way to get a "pvssy flow" is to target chicks online.

You know I am in the middle of a discussion with D9, and even my baby over there said, "You guys should target horny chicks, better marketing strategies."

Well, chicks online are exactly that. What makes this better, is that usually, a good number of chicks you would go outside to your local bookstore and meet, are right there online. Now, all you need is a good pic, a good sexual state, a "cool" factor, lol...and it's done.

Then what I do skip, is now that I have my "group" me and some girls then hit up the clubs. I've ONS with lesbians doing this.....the club is all a social game, and since I come in with chicks, other chicks automatically see me as "ok" so the work is done.

1. Use online to build pvssy flow.
2. Use girls from pvssy flow, to gain more "coolness" in the club and the streets.

And there you have it boys, DON STATUS.
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
with the best and easiest girls being 18
The PRIME s1ut (rebellion/independence/freedom/experimentation) phase for American girls is like ~17-19. Girls this age will fvck you at the drop of a hat, or more likely, alcohol. Many of them still live at home and spend a lot of time online. So, Skip happens to be the right age to take full advantage of this GGW demographic. This is a prime reason why online works so well for him - as all the right variables are lining up here.

Older girls are going to take a lot more game though, as they've racked up a LOT of experience with guys (~10-15 partners and tons of getting hit on) by the time they're 20 & so are a little more weary and wary...
 
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Wayword, not ness. true buddy. Horny women, women looking for good, attractive men, come in all shapes, ages, and sizes.

What I find is that an older chick is a better relationship partner just because she has more wisdom.....not saying a younger chick isn't either though.

But a lot of guys are against online dating, and all I can ask is...why?
That same chick you sarge on in the club, at Arby's, at Borders....has a page set up online and you just need to drop a note.

I like this better, because I can spend more time on my business, on my passion, etc....then sarging in the field. It takes 30 seconds to drop a note, but it takes 5 min. to build rapport and grab a number.

Also, dropping notes helps to do with Anti-Dump was saying, and that's "filter" through un-interested chicks. So you know you are only dealing with chicks who want to be dealt with.

I don't know of a better marketing strategy for pvssy flow.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonJuanForever said:
Wayword, not ness. true buddy. Horny women, women looking for good, attractive men, come in all shapes, ages, and sizes.

What I find is that an older chick is a better relationship partner just because she has more wisdom.....not saying a younger chick isn't either though.
Well, if you ask a girl when she racked up most of her partners, I'm willing to bet the vast bulk was before age 20. That's when their emotional limbic brain has developed far more than their logical neocortex, combined with surging hormones... Guys tend to be the opposite, with our emotional development lagging behind our logical.

In any case, you're right, some 18-yo SLVT is NOT going to be good relationship material, HECK NO! At least date someone whose age starts with a 2 or 3... :D

I'd also prefer more fieldtime, but kinda stuck a lot online for now cuz I ain't got the free time to go out a lot. At home, I can at least multitask and be semi-productive.
 
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Wayword just try to remember, that same chick's azz you are staring at in the Arbys line, about 8 out of 10 times, SHE HAS A MYSPACE PAGE. For sure, approach her in the open, I'm not saying don't do that. But you can as "easily" post your pic online, send out your pms messages to chicks in your area, and wake up with what I call

"residual pvssy flow"

in your note box. You are getting pvssy coming at you while you are NOT IN THE FIELD. You are in the gym, in the field making sales, fvckin another chick, or getting high, and you go to your note box and find 5 hot chicks in there who want you to call them and hangout/chill/fvck.

I honestly don't know of an easier way to get sex, because just about 70% of women online, GO ONLINE, just to look for a good fvck.

- JOHN a.k.a. DJF
 
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