"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Internet dating is SO EASY (read on)

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Guys, I just joined this site cuz sosuave is the best thing out there, but i noticed that nobody has said wat i am gonna say:

1) It is ridiculously easy to # close online,

2) its also easy to make dates online, and

3) its easy to hook up wit girls u meet online.


Why does everyone say its better to meet someone face to face than it is to write them a message on a site like Myspace? Its all the same girls. The girls u see on myspace r the same ones u see walking around at the mall and at college parties and on the street. Practially EVERYONE has a profile. Yes, the gaurd is up for girls and women on myspace, but I have good success to tell you about, and you can all learn from this. The following WILL SHOCK YOU OUT OF UR DON JUAN SOCKS!!!!


I am 21, and in the last 2 years, Id estimate that I have had sex with about 30 girls that i met off of sites like myspace.com, buddypic.com, thedilly.com, faceparty.com and whimit.com...............THIRTY in 2 years!!!! and ive gotten layed about 15 times otherwise (girls i met in clubs and on vacation and ect).

Add to that, I have also had well over 100 dates with chicks from the internet that did not end in sex (prob due to my lack of game at the time), but there was kissing and some degree of success.

I have also met several gf's online and they were good, normal girls, until i AFC'ed their asses by being too loving and sweet, always seems to be my mistake but tahts another story.


Now let me sidetrack for a second to NUMBER CLOSING and MESSAGING girls on MYSPACE.com and other sites like it.

All i do is write the same message to as many hot girls as i want, sayin somethin along the lines of hey girl u have the most beautiful face i ever seen, we should deff talk, whats ur sn?

and guess wat? i get about a 30% reply rate, so if i send out 50 messages, i get about 20 sns.......and when talking on AIM, its simple because i have a basic convo just like I would with a random girl in person, and after 5 minutes, I ask for the # and usually get it..........and i would get #s from about half of the girls that gave me their sns, the rest just kinda flake out.

So bottom line is, getting the # online is SOOO easy, and then setting dates up and gettin laid (or gettin a gf) is just as easy and u gotta remember that myspace.com is a site that EVERYONE is on, including all the normal hotties that u see everyday on the street.



anybody got any questions? Ill fill y'all in, i kno wat im talkin bout fellas
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sounds good do you have a link to your myspace?

and how easy is it to find a **** buddy on myspace? how would you go about asking about this?
 

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Homie, I've been preaching the same thing for the past 2 years. Search the forum, you'll find lots of positive posts and threads by me about myspace and chat rooms.
 

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Yep It's easy to net sarge but a lot of men want to learn the art of approaching, seducing and closing.

Not the art of sitting behind their computers typing.

Plus any tool with a keyboard can pickup net chicks.

Now picking up any given girl, at any given time in any given location that’s were real skill is needed.

Thus sosuave.com was created

Just out of curiosity….. If you are f*cking a new girl every 2 weeks for 2 years why did you sign up to sosuave.com?
 

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i've been doing the online thing for about 12 months now and i find it damn hard, maybe it's the town i live in or something but i've got maybe 1 date in 12 months from online sites and that was last january

i get a good success rate until they see my picture and then nothing... and i really don't consider myself to be ugly at all

i get phone numbers sometimes but they always flake, one hb flaked out on me 5 times in a row and then found herself another boyfriend

anyways maybe it's because my town is quite small, so i don't get as much opportunity online, but i've found it good for my game overall to do online, night time and day time venues and mix them all up

anyways i can't believe you are so good at it... but props to you man... wish i was in your shoes!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I do not beleive no said IT DOES NOT WORK,but rather that you have to know what you are doing with women before you hit the internet to find chicks. It would be interesting to see how your conversations go on myspace and so on.
 

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A few things to address fellas....

I live in the boston area so yea meetin girls off of myspace is real easy, there are easily thousands of them withint 10 miles of me.


As for the art of approaching, seducing and closing, lemme put it to u this way - does it matter if u get a girl's # online or if u get it face to face? either way, the REAL seducing occurs when u take her out on a date or when u go hang out with her, and girls will flake always and no matter wat, ive had more girls flake who i met in clubs than online, ive also gotten girl #s in person by just approaching and hitting on them, and even if we go out once or somethin, they still flake, so really, free dating sites like myspace and wat used to be popular (buddypic.com, thedilly.com) are the way to go. BY THE WAY forget bout all the other sites cuz myspace has completely taken over.


i joined sosuave so i can post and discuss, and also i for some reason am sooo smooth and alpha around girls when im just dating around to ****, and when i get a gf who i fall for, i become #1 AFC in the world, its wat happened to my last gf and she hurt me, so i turned to sosuave.com and theres some great tips on how to keep up with the bs girls dish out and take charge. So, that is why i joined the site.......oh and by the way, im not really good at approaching girls outta nowhere, but when ive done it, its worked, anyway i hope that answers w/e questions anyone had for now....


KEEP ASKIN MORE, i will share the knowledge don-juaners
 

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A reply to was MSG said, i dunno why the girls on the internet stop talkin to u after u show the pic, but wat i always do is make sure she sees my pics b4 we even talk in the first place, i mean basically if a girl thinks im at the very least cute, then ill get a sn and and if i talk really nicely and sosuave her ass (talk about her, be ****y, push/pull) then after bout 5 minutes, i usually get the # and from there its all bout how well u talk on the phone



on myspace my convo just goes "hey babe wats ur sn? we should talk sometime ;)" THATS IT
 

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I recently did the myspace thing and had a 38 year old divorced lady with 3 kids trying to stalk me. She left voicemails on my phone,she admitted to leaving my myspace page on all day just to hear my song(foo fighter-best of you). She made enuendoes like "you could be over helping me wrap my christmas tree" with a damn smiler face with a winked eye at the end. Darn myspace hoes. Too bad she was not better looking or I would have nailed her.
 

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I don’t disagree that net pickups are easier and very effective but there is a big difference man.

Being out there and experiencing a face to face approach and a net pickup are two completely different things the latter being a lot less enjoyable.

Nothing can beat the rush you get when you approach, that light head feeling you get when you gaze into her eyes. Nothing can replace the smell of her hair, the look in her eyes and the sound of her voice when you’re hooking her. Nothing can compensate for her laugh when you say something funny or that puppy dog face when you make fun of her. There’s no comparison to the feeling you have when you number or kiss close a girl whom only 10 min ago was a complete stranger.

You say net pickups are easy hey I’m not arguing that.

But better? Not by a long shot

More enjoyable? Not even close

More fulfilling? Never

So have your net pickups but don’t try replacing the real thing with the net thing because it’s not happening man.

Plus why go for the easier alternative? Any true PUA or Successful person in general knows that the more challenging the task the better the reward.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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blinkwat, how old are u? i am 21 so the girls i go for are usually 18 - 21, and to be honest, the younger the girl is, the more likely it is that shes normal, hot, and easy, so if you are younger, by all means go for 16 or w/e u want, cuz it gets easier as age drops.....i dunno how u got 38 year old but if shes ugly then NEXT her ass...and keep in mind, if u do myspace, u must have at least 10 girls on ur "supply list" that way if a few turn out not good looking, ull still have a few that are
 

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Levithan, i have felt this rush b4 and i kno wat u mean, but for shy guys who cant approach, my internet logic works PERFECT cuz this will help those shy guys get laid and get girls,



and on a side note, as you will see in my next thread READ IT BY THE WAY..........I will detail about that rush you speak of when it comes to girls in clubs, so read it, im labelling it as "meet the girl and just kiss her! (at the club)"
 

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So you would disagree when I say…………

Instead of hiding behind his computer a shy guy should be out there approaching a random girl and experiencing the rush so he can learn to get over the shyness and become successful with women?
 

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well the shy guy will eventually have to go MEET the girl and thats when he can start feeling the rush, but since hes shy, the approach is easier online, but then he must definitely hold his own when he actually hangs out with the girl of his interest
 

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But he must at some point in his life learn to approach a stranger of the opposite sex.

The sooner the better

So isn't it wiser for him to learn to approach first and when his got his game down he can then do net approaches?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Iam only 18. I have been in search for a sugar momma but she was not what I have in mind.
 

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OK I see how you're getting the girl from myspace to instant messenger, but how are you getting the number within 5 minutes of chatting. Whenever I have them in AIM and I suggest meeting or exchanging numbers they get weird.

Why don't you post a chat log of a girl you just got on IM and then number closed. Also how do you play it after you get the number? Do you call them right then, the next day or what?
 

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I used to go out with a chick I meet off myspace,she was a WH*RE. She was always willing to do everything,pick me up,give me her number where she was at,do my homework etc and I would never ask she would just do it. She was just looking for someone she could call her bf. Alot of the chicks on there have alot of issues.
 

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Alright, I agree getting the instant messenger contact is quite easy. What do you do next, though? I mean, how do you build up rapport ONLINE, lol?

And yes, as someone else already asked - after you get the number - when do you call her and do you instantly set up a date or what?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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