"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Internet Dating is Bull****

NeedToImprove

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this a whole bunch of crap, in the internet you can only find girls with emotional and self-esteem problems, crazys, girls that have been "burnt" by recent or past relationships and want a shoulder to lean on to, girls with depressions and nervous problems and... teenagers. if you are trying to getting a date through internet forget it and i mean it, you could do so much better in the real life dating world.

Forget monitors and keyboards, there's nothing like seducing a girl by smiling and looking deeply into her eyes and having a face to face conversation
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by NeedToImprove
this a whole bunch of crap, in the internet you can only find girls with emotional and self-esteem problems, crazys, girls that have been "burnt" by recent or past relationships and want a shoulder to lean on to, girls with depressions and nervous problems and... teenagers. if you are trying to getting a date through internet forget it and i mean it, you could do so much better in the real life dating world.

Forget monitors and keyboards, there's nothing like seducing a girl by smiling and looking deeply into her eyes and having a face to face conversation
Agree. Have not had success yet with an Inter-date.

But then again, EVERYONE has issues these days. *shrug*
 

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Originally posted by NeedToImprove
this a whole bunch of crap, in the internet you can only find girls with emotional and self-esteem problems, crazys, girls that have been "burnt" by recent or past relationships and want a shoulder to lean on to, girls with depressions and nervous problems and... teenagers. if you are trying to getting a date through internet forget it and i mean it, you could do so much better in the real life dating world.

Forget monitors and keyboards, there's nothing like seducing a girl by smiling and looking deeply into her eyes and having a face to face conversation
All you use the internet for is to hook up with people, that's it. There is really no such thing as "internet dating" because all you use the internet for is to contact one another. I've met tonnes of regular people and lots of so-so to crappy ones, it's all just a numbers game.

Internet dating may suck for YOU but that doesn't mean it sucks for everyone else.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Re: Re: Internet Dating is Bull****

Originally posted by SonOfTheMostHigh
...Internet dating may suck for YOU but that doesn't mean it sucks for everyone else.
It's usually the same guys that say that picking women up at clubs sucks too. Has anyone ever read a post from one of them actually where TO pick up women?
 

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The internet is becoming more mainstream when it comes to "meeting new people" hehe, Once again... I think we can all there is more risk involved! But not too much more. ;p
 

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flakes

Online women flake bad but once you meet them they are the easiest to close as many will have you str8 to their houses.
Mnay of my field reports involve Internet chicks, including strippers and very hot women along with some average ones.
 

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Re: flakes

Originally posted by everywomanshero
Online women flake bad but once you meet them they are the easiest to close as many will have you str8 to their houses.
Just out of idle curiousity, nobody feels the slightest twinge of "man, I'm better than this" when they're browsing profile photos on Myspace looking for a new target to bang? :confused:
 

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Re: Re: flakes

Originally posted by Cheat_LBJ
Just out of idle curiousity, nobody feels the slightest twinge of "man, I'm better than this" when they're browsing profile photos on Myspace looking for a new target to bang? :confused:
Dude, where do you go to eat? Do you go to a restaurant where you pay for what you want or do you go to a hand out line where someone gives you whatever they can for free?

You get what you pay for....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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