"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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>>will be financially secure, drive a very nice car, and treat me like a princess
>> but I'm not a big spender

LOL, sure!!!! I have come to think what women say in their narratives is the opposite of what they actually are after!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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afc_2_dj said:
>>will be financially secure, drive a very nice car, and treat me like a princess
>> but I'm not a big spender

LOL, sure!!!! I have come to think what women say in their narratives is the opposite of what they actually are after!!
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Here's a good part that goes along with what you're saying:

I like nice things, but I'm not a big spender. I'd love to own a 535 BMW and a nice house.
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Although she's not a big spender, she'd like a BMW and a nice house. Anyone wondering how she expects to get those things if she's not a big spender? I wonder if she expects to get them in the same manner she got her implants. :rolleyes:
 
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I think she was only referring to not being a big spender of her own money.

Those little things people leave out.

So when are you going to hook up with her, Francisco?
 
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Writing a good profile for Myspace or similar sites

Okay, I wanna put up a new Myspace profile, but this time I want to be more careful about setting it up right. I don't know which way to go....do I just include the basic facts, or do I put a bit more of myself out there by posting some thoughts, opinions, etc? Should I be more straightforward, or to I try to use some c+f, etc.?

Should I include general appealing descriptions you often see, such as "outgoing", "laid-back," "like to have a good time," "good guy", etc...?

I don't want to seem too serious and dull, yet I don't wanna come across as too nice and chumpy, and definitely not needy. I'd like to convey character, but as someone who could be cool to hang with. Unique, but with some mass appeal.

My "target audience" is women in their 30s, no older than say 36/37.

I know I want to keep the design simple, for it's the text content I'm focused on.

I figure a decent chest-up webcam pic of myself in my business attire should cover the pic part.

Suggestions, please.
 
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I suggest using the forum's search engine. We've covered this one a few times.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Internet Dating 101:

Rule #1

Just say no.



End of class!!!!!!!
 
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Bonhomme said:
:crackup:

I think she was only referring to not being a big spender of her own money.

Those little things people leave out.

So when are you going to hook up with her, Francisco?
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I had thought of running a game (er, experiment) on her for ****z n' giggles. Just to see if I could get her to pay my way up front with the expectation of hitting the jackpot somewhere down the line. I don't know, I can think of better things to do.
 
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