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international student- are they worth dating or is it waste of time and effort

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would u date a international student u knew who was going just stay here for a yr or less. do ou think its worth the time , effort, and money. they be from korea, japan, taiwan,.....etc. i mean they would be leaving in 6 months, 1 yr or 2 yr and after that you won;t see em anymore and that ur just wasting ur effort, time and money.

i'm a cbc candian guy and i just find that if they just here temporary and not here long term what the point . i mean they will leave and if u do fall in love its so hard to get citizenship in korea and japan . its a big process and ur degree might not even be of use in japan or korea and u mioght have to do a crap job when u get there.

i mean you have to spend money on her if u ask her out and it adds up-movie, dining out....etc and then after a while shes leaves to her country- you don;t think thats a waste of hard earned money. its like all ur effort and time, money is loss


what do you guys think. would u date or would u not date a international student. reasons to as to why or why not.

i mean if ur just loooking for sex after 3rd date its ok, but are they that easy lol . the ones i met seemed pretty consverative haha
 

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Hey I was recently dating an exchange student not to long ago. It was probably the best thing I ever did and it was awesome. However, the biggest downside is that they have to move back to there country.This is something you have to learn to accept before getting involved with one and you will be one sad man once they leave.

I wouldn't date any internationals if you are looking for a long-term relationship. It seems like you are more worried about money than the actual relationship. Well, I will tell you this the international girl I was dating would get me free breakfast in the morning and always paid me back if I bought her dinner or she would treat me some where in return. I'll also say she was Asian. The sex of course was awesome and she was down for anything and would scream **** in her language. I was hitting that after the 3rd date. Money was not a big problem.

Given the choice to date one again I wouldn't do it unless there was something long-term involved and if they agreed to come move with me. I personally don't want to be the one moving to there country only to find out its not what I really wanted and you don't want to do long-distance.
 
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