"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Internal Clocks are Crazy!

Hockey Playa

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I had an interesting incident with my internal clock today, but first a little background info. Im a university student, and because of my schedule i am allowed to go to bed around 2-3 am, and wake up around 11-12 am. So today i had a 40% midterm in one of my classes. I set my alarm for 6:45 am so i could get up early and review. I go to bed and, roll over in the morning and see my clock reads 8:00 am. My alarm on my phone had frozen, yet i still was awake in time to write my exam. Any other day i would still be in the middle of a deep sleep, but thanks to my internal clock it knew something was wrong and woke me up in time. I haven't googled the scientific reasons behind this, but i have encountered this countless times, and just wanted express how happy i was that we have this ability.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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frenchbeauty

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Haha the exact same thing happened to me about a week ago. Went to bed too late, had my exam at 10:15 AM. I set my alarm for 8am, woke up, turned it off and stayed in my bed too long, and fell asleep again. I woke up, and I thought to myself " Ok I'm fvcked...". Glanced at the alarm, 9am, when I was expecting 1pm. Pretty amazing stuff.
 

blinkwatt101

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Wtf that's just luck....waking up 1-2 hours after you hit the snooze button isn't an internal clock...

Get a dog,then you know what an internal clock is. Everday day at 6:15-6:30 they wake me up to let them out to pee. Doesn't matter what the weather looks like,how bright it is outside or the time of year.
 
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