"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I dont see a lot of info in the bible on the intermediate stage of dating.. After you've got a date and gone on one or two. Anyone know of good articles on this? I have couple second dates set up this week/weekend and just wondering do i still play it cool like no scheduling a date on the date, dont ask to come back to my house unless she initiates, etc.? Or do i loosen it up a bit and try to push things forward?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Push things forward indifferently.

How far have you gotten on these dates?
 
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One tonight good kino and kiss at the end of the night on first date. Kind of shy, innocent sort of girl. I am meeting another girl for tennis on saturday kissed her also on first date.. A bit more passionately id say. I'm just trying to walk that line of being comfortable and just having fun and whatever kind of attitude with the uncertainty of how to move things forward smoothly. I guess im just overthinking it and will need to see how it plays out during the dates. Trying to keep my cool!
 
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jurry said:
I dont see a lot of info in the bible on the intermediate stage of dating.. After you've got a date and gone on one or two. Anyone know of good articles on this? I have couple second dates set up this week/weekend and just wondering do i still play it cool like no scheduling a date on the date, dont ask to come back to my house unless she initiates, etc.? Or do i loosen it up a bit and try to push things forward?
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You know why there is no intermediate stage?

Because its not meant to be a nfl play by play book. The only reason they start out that way is to give you an idea on how things are supposed to feel, to kill your dependence on bad habits that have been created by the feministic media.

You need to get some passion in life for more than just pvssy. Play a sport get a hobby.

Develop YOU'RE life for she should become PART and never be YOU'RE life.

Once you find yourself as a man these questions are obsolete and you become so in tune with your wants/needs that these strategies are no longer needed you just do what you do regardless of benefits/consequences and are not worried about her opinion of these.
 
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Thank u sisterfister thats what i needed to hear.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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