“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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rich_uk

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this girl who is supposedly a friend of mine stabbed me in the back basically yesterday. im djing 2 girls at present (one more seriously than the other) but the unserious one apparently really likes me, anywya this friend of mine says to her "be careful he really likes someone else and is just playing you"

i was never doing that, i hadnt told either that i like them, just asked them on dates and now the unserious girl is really upset... what the fcuk?

how should i handle this situation? im thinking of just leaving it with unserious girl until i know what the one i like more wants.

id say unserious is a 7 and serious is an 8.5 so you can see why im making that decision.

another slight problem is that serious girl is starting to act shy now since she agreed to a date... im not sure if this is just cause of her friends or not. how should i handle this?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

THA REALNESS

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You gotta fallback doggie ,from the unserious one that is.After that tell your freind that you don't appreciate people playing with your cooch........WHOA!:p


Seriously you are doing the right thing by gaming the one with a lower il out of the 2 ,and building her up while keeping the one that's already down for you on ice...was that your intention or accidental??lol.

Girls take a lot of what their freinds think about a guy into consideration sooo..tread carefully especially in HS .Don't ignore them just be civil and continue to game her down.
 

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im basically gonna tell u the same thing as realness, be kind to her friends. in the chick world her friends probably controll about 65% of what she will do. and u gotta do somethin to get ur friend who snitchd to shut there mouth and quit ****in up ur game.
 

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i had another friend have a word with the one who talked. she got the message and said she didnt mean to cause trouble. needless to say im basically not talking to her. that could have messed things up bad.

anyway i salvaged the unserious girl (susie) well i wouldnt say salvaged as i didnt say anything to her just smiled and said hi and she got all excited so thats ok i think. like you guys said fallback option.

as for serious (rosie) id say things are looking up. i want to concentrate on her because i want a challenge and shes more attractive/ better personality (not as good boobs though, anyway i digress)

im working the friends angle (they all seem to love me) and rosie has invited me out a few times (with the group) she actually said to me she wants to get to know me better before going on a date... shes really shy.

anyway im just going to see where it goes with herand if that fcuks up ive got unserious girl and a few others that ive lain groundwork with.
 

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Just confront her. What kind of friends ****block you anyways? That's so not cool. Don't take it.
 

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im going to a party tonight, and asked the hostess if i could bring rosie. the answer was no, (a very blunt and over the top no as well) i then get told the hostess likes me. this presents me with a conundrum, i could probably get with the hostess tonight and get some loving (which i have with her before and its pretty good) BUT this would almost surely completely ruin my chances with rosie.

the thing is, as much as i would like to get with more than one girl at once at my college it is very difficult as reumours get spread and exaggerated. i mean i have 3 girls at the moment who seem interested (susie, rosie and hostess) BUT the one i like the most rosie has the lowest IL.

so is it sensible to keep pursuing her? as there is no definite likelihood of me getting with her? or should i go for the one i couod definitely get with (susie)??

oh yea, how should you respond to prolonged looks if you cant go over to talk to them? today i just went with smiling seemed to work...
 

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You should work on the one with the low IL the other ones are easy pickings if you will.....but then again you should go after rosie cuz that's the one you really want your not obligated to the game.
 
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