(C) Copyright 2004 by MistahS
To be read with an open mind,
While I do not claim to be a supreme guru in the field of seduction (for it is impossible to ever know too much of something that is governed by trends that change as much as the seasons do and must be uniquely suited to affect both, every individual that either practices the art or is being seduced) or any field to tell the truth; through introspection I have realized over the years that we must use every single resource that is available to us in order to acquire and put into practice whatever information we have had access to in order to improve the quality of our lives.
Through the gift of technology many of us, especially those beginning DJ's who might not have either the confidence or the "knowledge" (notice the quotation marks) to pursue their genetic rights when it comes to the field of meeting, seducing, and (hopefully) establishing the desired bond with a female, the trip can be made much shorter and with fewer pitfalls. While I do not advocate the action of playing with another's feelings, especially those of women, who regardless what may be thought of them by the majority DO HAVE FEELINGS of their own and can be as fragile as many of the self proclaimed AFC's in this site, I do believe that the act of establishing and keeping a relationship can be practiced in a safe manner, while at the same time, helping you continue a less rocky path on your pursuit to becoming a master DJ.
Through Chat Applications, you can not only practice the so-called "pick up techniques" but, throgh the usage of Web cams and email, actually establish a fictitious, though effective relationship with a female that might perhaps aid you when it comes to your activities in the real world and the acquisition of both, conversational skills and even a bit of insight into the female mind. No, I am not telling you to take this very seriously in an emotional manner (most likely she won't either) but, do stay loyal to your conversational practices and "DJ Skills" while talking to her, and maybe even look upon your "web girlfriend" as a sort of pen-pal who you can connect with and "discharge" most of the things you wouldn't be caught dead telling any other person whom you just have met in the street (especially girls...before having a significant time to bond with them) without fear of rejection.
You see, the best thing about this technique is that it will enable you to not only practice your skills in a safe environment (you might perhaps never even see each other's pics) with never ending retrys and "learning experiences" (check out the # of girls online at this moment on any Chat program) but, most importantly, it will help you get rid of your desperation in a subconscious level and actually might gain you the love of another human being (who knows, maybe she's your soulmate, or just a very good friend, or even a counseling-type figure). Now, remember, take this as a mere simulation of the real world and in no way become obsessed with it. 3 or four chats a week might be all you need, the rest is up to you.
****I showed this technique to my ex-AFC friend and he told me that it helped him get rid of his desperation, since, whenever he met a new woman, he did not act as though all he needed in life was her and also helped him relieve loads of stress and spend more time that he would have otherwise have spent fantasizing about women or feeling sorry about himself on the betterment of his personality. Remember, the important key points of this exercise are as follows:
1) Be yourself for once without fear of being rejected (the more you work on you, the less AFC you're going to act...trust me), don't fake a personality or become something you're not...remember, a screen name is only that. You don't even have to necessarily concentrate on looks, just find someone who's personality matches yours in the beginning. (Although do practice pickups online...most of these girls are real (excuse the stupid porn bots) and if you find one you really like and likes you back; lives near you and after seeing each other's pics and talking on the phone for a while who knows what it might actually introduce you to)
2)Practice your DJ skills. (Including Nexting/Blocking them if they are not worth your time...I know it sounds ridiculous, but is a good way to summon up the courage to do it in the real world.)
3)Don't let it become an obsession.
4)Spend more time on yourself.
5)Use your skills in the real world.
6)Remember, although it's a person you're chatting with, don't substitute them for the real world...use this as a way to give yourself that "I have a GF aura" women look for on men.
7)Don't let it become an obsession.
(C) Copyright 2004 by MistahS
To be read with an open mind,
While I do not claim to be a supreme guru in the field of seduction (for it is impossible to ever know too much of something that is governed by trends that change as much as the seasons do and must be uniquely suited to affect both, every individual that either practices the art or is being seduced) or any field to tell the truth; through introspection I have realized over the years that we must use every single resource that is available to us in order to acquire and put into practice whatever information we have had access to in order to improve the quality of our lives.
Through the gift of technology many of us, especially those beginning DJ's who might not have either the confidence or the "knowledge" (notice the quotation marks) to pursue their genetic rights when it comes to the field of meeting, seducing, and (hopefully) establishing the desired bond with a female, the trip can be made much shorter and with fewer pitfalls. While I do not advocate the action of playing with another's feelings, especially those of women, who regardless what may be thought of them by the majority DO HAVE FEELINGS of their own and can be as fragile as many of the self proclaimed AFC's in this site, I do believe that the act of establishing and keeping a relationship can be practiced in a safe manner, while at the same time, helping you continue a less rocky path on your pursuit to becoming a master DJ.
Through Chat Applications, you can not only practice the so-called "pick up techniques" but, throgh the usage of Web cams and email, actually establish a fictitious, though effective relationship with a female that might perhaps aid you when it comes to your activities in the real world and the acquisition of both, conversational skills and even a bit of insight into the female mind. No, I am not telling you to take this very seriously in an emotional manner (most likely she won't either) but, do stay loyal to your conversational practices and "DJ Skills" while talking to her, and maybe even look upon your "web girlfriend" as a sort of pen-pal who you can connect with and "discharge" most of the things you wouldn't be caught dead telling any other person whom you just have met in the street (especially girls...before having a significant time to bond with them) without fear of rejection.
You see, the best thing about this technique is that it will enable you to not only practice your skills in a safe environment (you might perhaps never even see each other's pics) with never ending retrys and "learning experiences" (check out the # of girls online at this moment on any Chat program) but, most importantly, it will help you get rid of your desperation in a subconscious level and actually might gain you the love of another human being (who knows, maybe she's your soulmate, or just a very good friend, or even a counseling-type figure). Now, remember, take this as a mere simulation of the real world and in no way become obsessed with it. 3 or four chats a week might be all you need, the rest is up to you.
****I showed this technique to my ex-AFC friend and he told me that it helped him get rid of his desperation, since, whenever he met a new woman, he did not act as though all he needed in life was her and also helped him relieve loads of stress and spend more time that he would have otherwise have spent fantasizing about women or feeling sorry about himself on the betterment of his personality. Remember, the important key points of this exercise are as follows:
1) Be yourself for once without fear of being rejected (the more you work on you, the less AFC you're going to act...trust me), don't fake a personality or become something you're not...remember, a screen name is only that. You don't even have to necessarily concentrate on looks, just find someone who's personality matches yours in the beginning. (Although do practice pickups online...most of these girls are real (excuse the stupid porn bots) and if you find one you really like and likes you back; lives near you and after seeing each other's pics and talking on the phone for a while who knows what it might actually introduce you to)
2)Practice your DJ skills. (Including Nexting/Blocking them if they are not worth your time...I know it sounds ridiculous, but is a good way to summon up the courage to do it in the real world.)
3)Don't let it become an obsession.
4)Spend more time on yourself.
5)Use your skills in the real world.
6)Remember, although it's a person you're chatting with, don't substitute them for the real world...use this as a way to give yourself that "I have a GF aura" women look for on men.
7)Don't let it become an obsession.
(C) Copyright 2004 by MistahS