"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Interesting video about the economics of sex

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At first I thought it was just some buzzfeed ****, but it actually makes since. The video describes how birth control has damaged the sex economy which affects marriages.

 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Trainwreck, you said your white version of yourself would kill it in the dating game. Is this the "white economics about sex"? I mean, if you are talking about blacks, then I don't think the birth control has any impact at all since allot of them have babies all over the place and they don't care.

I get the impression thought that women have it easier in the dating and marriage game period and this video simply is not true. Unless there is a societal ratio of 7 women to every guy (Isaiah 4:1 -- after Armagedoon -- future kingdom of God), then I think there is always be a tough time for us men. Except when a future war fixes all of that with the survivors of that future war not having any issues getting a girl at all.
 

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Trainwreck, you said your white version of yourself would kill it in the dating game. Is this the "white economics about sex"? I mean, if you are talking about blacks, then I don't think the birth control has any impact at all since allot of them have babies all over the place and they don't care.

I get the impression thought that women have it easier in the dating and marriage game period and this video simply is not true. Unless there is a societal ratio of 7 women to every guy (Isaiah 4:1 -- after Armagedoon -- future kingdom of God), then I think there is always be a tough time for us men. Except when a future war fixes all of that with the survivors of that future war not having any issues getting a girl at all.
Judging that I have lived in a white environment my whole life and white men are preferred by white women, yes I would be killing it in the dating game. This is just common sense lmao. You think the dating game is one sided because you believe in this MGTOW bull **** spewed by asshurt basement nerds. If you study the dating game thoroughly, the female and male both have their advantages and disadvantages.
 

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SUMMARY

Women used to have all the power, as they collectively kept tight control over the vajayjay.

Then

Birth control was invented, and women could sleep around without consequence

So

Women lost their collusive control over the vajayjay, since women began competing with other women for dudes.

Now

Sex is easy, if a dude even has halfway decent game he can have access to sex

AND

because sex is so easy, mean can wait until much later in life, and have TWO STANDARDS, one for girls he sleeps with, and one for girls he wants to marry.

Therefore

Women have shot themselves in the vajayay with the pill and feminism

TAKE AWAY

sex is easy, don't marry a ho.
 

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That was awesome, I still remember trying to explain to blue pill boys at 18 about the economics of sex. I was 18 myself, but I saw it exactly as the vid explains, especially since I wasnt after any commitment, just fun. Then around 22-23 I realised that my value had increased and as I got older, it was more easier to pick up women, women in their late 20s, wouldnt play games as they were hitting the wall. Where as 18 year old girls would look at me as dating potential.

Once I understood how to give myself more "value", I found girls would happily share me, in either hoping to get a relationship or just happy to have someone to have fun with.

At the end of the day, its up to men to understand their value to the game, and do their best to be the best they can be and settle when their ready.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why do you only listen to this stuff when it comes from a feminist source?

This is basic stuff.

I have seen your posts around here, and it all comes from a very flimsy place. Whether it is moaning about race, trying to get your fat girlfriend to lose weight, or now pointing out the obvious in the marketplace. Sort yourself out.
How about you go take a tea biscuit and shove it up your wimpy european ass! If you have beef with me from a previous topic then you are free to pm and we can debate from there. However, do not troll my topics with bull shvt because your ass is too hurt from some other topic. This is also aimed at corrector too. Yall ******* MGTOW racist basement nerds **** me the **** off with yall's smart ass comments.
 
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