"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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interesting trailer

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ace of Flames said:
I saw this trailer at the movies. Looks funny, and it might even have some value to us DJ's.

Who says we're all DJ's ? 99% of us aren't, lol.
 

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Ace of Flames said:
it might even have some value to us DJ's.
Looking at this trailer and I can already tell that the DJ mentality is way ahead of anything this movie has to offer.

Hollywood is right now jumping on PUA movement but in no time it will be outplayed, done and be over with.

Becoming a DJ requires a life time commitment not a 60 mins seminar.
 

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DJDamage said:
Looking at this trailer and I can already tell that the DJ mentality is way ahead of anything this movie has to offer.

Hollywood is right now jumping on PUA movement but in no time it will be outplayed, done and be over with.

Becoming a DJ requires a life time commitment not a 60 mins seminar.
Thus the term 'some'. I dunno, people usually grasp something easier if they watch it. At the least, it'll have the most basic ideas of be a man, have some confidence, and maybe like a few approaches.

And Wiesman, I use the word 'DJ' loosely, as we all should. lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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if anything,the movie is gonna be,jon heder gains some confidence,wins the girl,and billy bob thorton is made out to be a jerk and goes home empty handed.
 

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HA!!
maybe not entirely DJ .... but it doesn look freakin funny!
and yeah... its gotta help the people who havent found the almighty holy path of sosuave yet
 
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