"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Interesting thought I have

RiceandChicken

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I realize most of these tips work in the outside world ald all, but I have always had this thought, do these things work in High school as well(chicks ranging from 14-17, maybe 18 year). Things like, negging, touching, escalation, taking charge, the don't give a fuvk attitude, don't trreat her like shes your life and everything you do revovles around her(I see alot of guys at my school do that, I really have been wandering, does treating there your girl like a princess a good thing or bad thing in the long run, high school wise). I really have been wondering, plus I need to know so I know where not to go wrong in my game(I'm a high school student). Thanks. If I need to clear the the question up a bit, please let me know.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NorwegianDJ

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Dude, you're in the High School forum.

Just focus on the fundumentals. You can't conciously do those things. It's a shift within your personality.
 

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These principles work on girls 14-50 years old. You poke a girl, she'll giggle. You kiss her, she'll blush. Girls essentially stay the same. But as for you my friend, you will need to continuously improve in every aspect of your life. Getting girls will be a side effect. Trust us. But for now, master the fundamentals and you'll do great.
 

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I did that method and with that mentality for 6 months ago. As NorwegianDJ said, that changes your personality and my changed too. But that was not my major problem, my problem was that I was unhappy with the fact that I picked up girls from every party I went to but The rest of My life was a mess. That was the only thing in my life that was good.

Be the best you, read The DJ-bible, be well groomed and the girls Will come to you! (and you will be happy)
 
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