"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cold_Play

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Scroll down to the bolded heading if you wanna skip the "boring" stuff.

Firstly, im 23, and a 3rd year university student dealing with computers.

It all started when a MILF, lets call her BEE, that I used to work with, got fired from her job.

Was for stealing, or somthing. Not important. Anyway, she knew I had computer skills and asked me for a favor. I wont go into detail what this favor was, it helped her get a job...and not perfectly legal. Also not important.

I agreed to do it, for a fee. This "favor" took me a few weeks to figure out, but I managed and it was perfect, and got her the job.

We didn't really discuss the payment for it, but she figured around 45$ would be cool. After completeing my end of the deal, I think I should jump that price up to 80-90$ for all my time I had to put in. Its my call, really, since I did her a HUGE favor.

She said she would pay me for it at a later date, this was back before the new year. We've kinda been talking through one of her friends, since she doesn't come around my work anymore.

The juicy part:

So, I got this milf, fake guns, nice body, has 2 kids but still not bad, who is indebted to me a favor/debt. I'm thinking of waving the debt and just ask her for a simple favor. ...... MILF PORN.

Why would I even think of that? Well, first of all, shes not the brightest of them all. She was married, used him for his money, and recently divorced, probably her 3rd of 4th. She also hasn't grown up. She wants to go to bars to get buzzed and meet guys..every day...most likely finding new guys every few weeks.

Im not some dirty kid that will go f*ck a milf, that could have multiple diseases for all I know. What I would be up for is some oral, video taped by my (willing) buddy, with her clothes mostly/all off..maybe some tity fuking too. My buddy might capitalize on this little situation and end up f*ckn her on the cam.

So my question is...... how would you, being in my situation, handle this situation? Would you forget the porn idea, just take 60$ and be done? Or knowing her reputation for still being quite open sexually, to do a milf porn and have killer bragging rights. I think it would be fuc*kn awesome too.

If you would be open for the porn, how would you propose it to her ? Maybe invite her to the bar and get a couple drinks in her, or just flat out "hey BEE, how would you like to help me an my buddy in a school project" :D

I figure I should propose the idea within the next month and a half or its too late.

What do ya think ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Damian

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Something's screwed up in your head man. When normal people have ideas like these, they are usually disregarded.

In any case, take the money and don't ask her to do porn. Use the money and get yourself evaluated.

-Damian
 

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If you seriously think that woman is going to do that as payment for something you said she offered around $50 for you're an idiot. Not only will she be righteously pissed (and quite rightfully so), she's liable to turn you in for whatever it was you did that was illegal.
 
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