Interesting situation.

[Slash Dolo]

Alright, gonna try to make this as short as possible. Two years ago was talking with this girl (HB9), and this other guy was also was also trying to get with her. I played it like a true DJ and she ends up choosing me, and the guy proceeds to be pretty butthurt about it. My now ex told me he blew it because of his jealousy towards me, and how he'd get butthurt anytime she brought me up.

Two years go by, and me and this girl are split apart and I am now single. He's engaged now, and his fiance' adds me on Facebook a few months ago. As of a week or so ago, I randomly would start up conversations with her. Nothing too long, just pitter patter, and then I'd stop replying and might start up something again a week later. Rinse and repeat, just random banter, but she is responsive and seems to like the conversations.

Now, do I be a truly evil bastard and maybe try to take things further? This girl is a 9, this guy will do all the work for me on potentially driving her away as he's proven to do in the past, and it's a big challenge for me which I enjoy. She's young (20) so the whole engagement **** probably isn't too serious, so I won't feel too bad if I break things up.

 

[Slash Dolo]

This dude is a vagina. The only thing he'd shoot is himself to be fair, lol.

 

[G_Govan]

This dude is a vagina. The only thing he'd shoot is himself to be fair, lol.

You may be underestimating men like the one you've described. There have been quite a few cases involving murder perpetrated by men who no one ever thought would do such a thing. These men were neither physically nor mentally intimidating.

It doesn't require much confidence or effort to pull a trigger. Jealousy and disrespect can make even the weakest of men snap.

Why swat at a bees nest? The thrill isn't worth the potential reaction.

 

[Slash Dolo]

You may be underestimating men like the one you've described. There have been quite a few cases involving murder perpetrated by men who no one ever thought would do such a thing. These men were neither physically nor mentally intimidating.

It doesn't require much confidence or effort to pull a trigger. Jealousy and disrespect can make even the weakest of men snap.

Why swat at a bees nest? The thrill isn't worth the potential reaction.

The thrill of the hunt.

You're at a much higher risk of dying by riding a motorcycle on the road instead of driving a vehicle. Does that stop people from riding motorcycles? Nope. You can't go through life being scared of the what ifs or you won't enjoy things. Yeah, some guys can go batsh*t over a female, but you're taking that risk with ANY girl whether she's with someone or not. Ex boyfriends can do the same thing in regards to women. I get where you guys are coming from, but being scared of what could happen isn't a mindset I tap into often.