"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Interesting situation (should I turn down a 3some)

bullethead

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I broke up with a girl 3 months ago in college. I caught her making out with my friend. I am still hung up over it.. My plan to get past this was to stop chasing girls and take a break away from girls for a while and concentrate on school, gym, and hobbies. Then suddenly a friend of mine approaches me of wanting a 3some (the cool kind-2 girls 1 guy). While I am in a good position, I rejected saying im not that type of guy anymore (I have a history of being a player). Do you guys think I made the right decision? she said I could call her anytime I want if I change my mind.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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GameTime76

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There is no right or wrong answer. Its all about what you want. Be your own man. As LastManStanding would say; "Say NO to Ho's!"
 
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