interesting situation - need experienced dj advice

[cA^]

background info:

- i attend college, which is where 650 students that are year 11 and 12, that are 16-17-18 years old go
- like school, start 8:30am, have lines on / off etc. finish at either 3:10pm or 3:45pm

ok the situation...: last year this girl moved near me, we got the same bus and eventually i sat down next to her etc. fastfoward a few months: i asked her out, she said 'no, i'm still getting over my ex bf'.
note, I was acting semi afc during this stage, so i pretty much left it there, and her bf and her went back out and are still today...

now...: last friday I had my game on big time, she saw me down the street after school and we hung about, i was using c&f by the book, massive kino etc. everything! anyway she loved it, went on msn and talked to me sunday night, i acted cool and calm. i took this as a sign that her interest in me is back.

anyway saw her on monday, same thing...c&f, kino, always laughing etc. she talked to me on msn that night too.
same thing happened on tuesday. anyway tuesday night (last night) she came on msn and I signed in offline cause i wanted to ask my bro a quick q and didnt want to talk to her (wanted to do some kickboxing before tea) and she started talking to me, anyway heres the thing...(i havent been going home on the bus afterschool much cause a family member is doing a course at tafe and takes me home anyway, car > bus)

i pretended to be 'Rebecca', a made up girl, however she didnt know this, and I said 'cA^ is at my house' etc. haha I figured this would guage her interest in me aswell. anyway she wanted to know all this info n I said ill be back later.

then she sent me a txt msg asking about her immediatly after signed off msn, so i figured she has some high interest level again...?
so her and her friend saw me today in the library, and started asking all these questions about 'rebecca' ... what colour eyes, hair, where she lives etc. and I just made the info up as I went, tryin not to laugh and the thing is, I didnt even sound very convincing about it all, but the girl who I asked out last year was REALLY pissed off with me as soon as she saw me.

Her friend was ok, although got pissed off later on, however the girl was like really really pissed off at me ie. not talking much, calling me a ****head not out and out meanly, she was trying to joke about it but you can tell when someone means it or not.

so really my question is, where did all this anger come from? as far as they know 'rebecca' is my gf LOL and I havent revealed that she is some figment of my imagination haha

so i figure, if they(specificall the girl i get the bus with) are acting like this, is it because they are pissed off that I have a a 'gf', which I dont lol however they dont know this...yet.

keeping in mind, the bus girl is still going out with the same guy she was last year when i was interested.

what do you guys make of this? as a dj, i guess im going to find it a little awkward if they are really pissed off at me tomorrow and i see them, and how should I act on the bus with that girl?

thx in advance guys, cheers

 

[Big Eee Zee]

um, you seem nice, but odd.

My guess is that you find this hilarious. While this particular brand of humor may be funny to you, most people dont get it. And this situation is going to go downhill fast. If this girl is pissed, and finds out you made a fool of her, she might brand you as weird. That news gets around. I dont know, you can either just say I was just fvcking with you and try to play it off real friendly like, to make sure she dosent feel stupid, or just play the pissed card and be like It was a joke, duh. and if she gets mad, get mad back. But it has to be convincing, and make her feel like its a waste of your time. Dont be mean tho.

basically, you might have pissed a girl off, and if she is moderately popular, she controls your fate. Unless this is a college, then **** it, dont talk to her anymroe. but this sounds more like an american highschool, where its hard to totally disappear.

 

[cA^]

Yea you could call it an american high school I guess....similar.

the girl isnt that popular really, alot of ppl drive around at lunch etc and go down the street, so u dont see the same people alot

yea i dunno how to tell her lol, my game is on big time with her, prob cause ive realised her family is kinda ****ed up and i wouldnt want a relationship with her, however I had used massive kino n stuff like that, really good stuff, its like she was falling for me, and found out i have a gf and is really pissed

 

[cA^]

woah...what can I say?

once again, shezz comes on here and just blows me out of the water with his knowledge / advice / mastery! well done!

thanks mate, for helping me with all of this kind of thing. it's not easy eh, but with the advice you have and the knowledge i've gained, makes it a hell of alot easier for me

thx dude, talk later

ps. check your pm folder